Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Girls Don't Like These Pickup Lines... 😅 #datingtips

9 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment, the speaker warns that using overly steamy or suggestive pickup lines tends to attract women who are either looking for a casual fling or who may have toxic traits, while simultaneously scaring away women who value loyalty and personal integrity. He frames this as a question of the kind of relationship the viewer wants, urging men to choose an approach that aligns with attracting a partner who embodies feminine integrity and long‑term commitment rather than merely seeking immediate sexual attention.

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If you're trying to make it sound a little too steamy and suggestive, well, yeah, that might get the attention of a woman who wants a fling, or it might get the attention of a woman who's toxic. But if she's a good girl, if she's trying to save herself for that one special man, if she is someone who has that integrity, that's going to scare her to death. This is part of what I mean by, "What kind of relationship do you want?" What kind of girl do you want? Do you want a girl who's gonna, you know, listen to every guy who has a suggestive pickup line, or do you want a girl who has integrity? And so make sure that you're only using an approach that will attract the kind of woman who has that loyalty and feminine integrity.