Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

GREEN FLAG 💚 (She Cares For You!) #relationshiptips

1 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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In this relationship‑advice segment, the speaker explains that a key "green flag" for a potential wife is her willingness to actively pursue her partner. She argues that, while men and women differ in expressed masculine and feminine energies, both ultimately seek love and connection, a dynamic she frames as part of God’s design. When a woman pursues, she does so through her feminine energy, which may look different from masculine pursuit but is equally important. The speaker lists concrete examples: knowing and acting on the man’s love language, flirting, and taking effort to look nice for him. These behaviors signal that she is invested, wants the relationship to stay strong, and wants to make her partner feel loved.

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All right, this next green flag in women is another very powerful one. This is gonna make her a good wife for sure. This green flag is that she pursues you too. If you've been following me for a while, you know we talk about this a lot. Men and women are different in a lot of ways. However, at our core, we're really not that different. We both long for connection. We both want to love and be loved. We have, though, the different feminine and masculine energies, and we are irresistibly drawn to each other. Men and women have a very unique bond. That's how God created us. And so when she's trying to pursue you, she's going to do it with her feminine energy. So it's going to look a little different. However, it's very critical that she does pursue you too, that she is invested in this relationship, in this marriage as well. So what are some What are some examples of this? Well, one example is that she knows your love language and she goes out of her way to show you love the way you need to feel it. She flirts with you! And she takes the time to look nice for you. These are all powerful ways a woman will pursue her man. She wants you to feel loved. She wants that connection to stay strong.