Men don't realize that helping others is deeply attractive to women. Whether volunteering, carrying something heavy, or assisting someone in need, these acts signal trustworthiness and the kind of reliable partner women actually want.
Another incredibly attractive thing is when you help other people. This can be just helping someone in need, this can be volunteering, this can be seeing somebody's carrying a heavy box and offering to carry it. Whatever it is, when you help somebody else, that's the kind of thing girls talk about when all the girls are talking about the guy they think is cute. When you're a teenager and you're dreaming about your prince charming, what he'll be like, yeah, those are the kinds of things you're talking about. Why? Because she doesn't just want a man. She wants a partner. And she wants someone she can trust and who's masculine and who's good. She wants someone who's good, as long as she's good. And if she's not good, why are you dating her? Just want you to think about that for a second. So when you help others, it may seem so small to you. "Oh, that box was heavy, and so I offered to carry it." It's not small to her, okay? That right there is the stuff dreams are made of.
