Dating coach Melannie Gregersen argues that toxic quick-fix advice doesn't work. High-quality women want men who are confident, emotionally mature, and rooted in Christ, not bitter or people-pleasing.
You do not have to become toxic to be loved. Honestly, one of the hardest parts about being a coach for me is seeing all the toxicity online. Sometimes it's just, it's too much for me to handle. It is so heartbreaking to me to see people teaching toxic things as if it's truth, and all they're doing is hurting the people they're supposedly supposed to be helping. And so many people will try to teach you all these toxic strategies to try and get quick sex or to try and feel loved. Bitterness will never never lead to fulfillment. Ever. High-quality, godly women are out there. Honestly, they want a good guy, as long as he's not passive or obsessed with people pleasing or too insecure. That's usually where the good guys get it wrong. So be confident, be emotionally mature, and be rooted in Christ. That's magnetic.
