How to Get Women to Notice You (Without Chasing Them)! 👈

This is how to get women to notice you without chasing them. Have you ever had a woman turn your head, capture your attention, and make you think about her nonstop? Can you imagine how it would feel if you could get her to notice you? You know, if she got some butterflies when she looked at you, if she wanted to be closer to you? You can have that, but you need to know how first. Most people aren't taught how, and that's why they think they can't have it. And just to be clear, the manipulative tactics most people are teaching, that's not the solution either. They're not going to help you because it only leads to a toxic relationship. But thankfully, you don't have to worry about that because I'm here to teach you how to get her attention in the best way possible without chasing her or without playing any sleazy mind games. As we dive in, if this is your first time watching, make sure you subscribe. As a Christian dating coach, I'm all about teaching you the science of attraction. So if you want a wholesome, authentic approach to relationships, and finding a loyal feminine woman, then make sure you subscribe. First, let's talk for just a minute about this concept of chasing and chasing a woman or making her chase you. Let's just kind of break it down because it's a very faulty strategy. So honestly, if you've been worried that you have to chase her or make her chase you, okay, you can just let that go now because that strategy doesn't work. I want you to imagine for a moment that my two fingers are people in love. Hopefully in love. They wanna be in love at least. And hopefully you can see this in the camera. If you have somebody chasing the other person, well then by default the other person is running away. And so you can never have a close relationship. You can never be together because you're never on the same page. You never have love, you never have connection, because one is always chasing the other. So chasing as a dating and relationship strategy is faulty. It doesn't work. Forcing love, forcing affection, forcing attention, these things don't work. So what do you do instead? What is the strategy that does work? It's simply about showing her that you are the man of her dreams. The authentic, real you is the man she's been waiting for, she's been praying for. This is a strategy I teach my clients in my Academy and why it works so well. By the way, speaking of my Academy, we are opening enrollment in August, so do be on the lookout for that. Here's the thing. When she sees that you are her dream man, she has to fall in love with you. That's just how it works. No healthy, mature person has ever said, "They're the person of my dreams, but I'm not going to fall in love with them." It's just, they're not really the person of your dreams if that's the case. So now let's talk about how you can quickly get her to notice you across the room. How you can impress her, she can really admire you and want to be closer to you. Sound good? Tip number 1 is to stop looking at your phone. When we are holding up our phone, it creates a natural barrier between us and the rest of the world. And sometimes that's what we want. We're feeling nervous or insecure or bored or whatever it is. Or maybe we even just think we're cool and we're on our phone scrolling. But what this does is it sends a message to everybody else that you're not approachable, You're not warm, you're not inviting, and you're closed off. It doesn't matter how cute she might think you are, immediately she gets that feeling of coldness or distance. That's not what you want. Instead, you want to put your phone away if you're in a situation where you want to meet and connect and interact with beautiful women. So what do you do when your phone is put away? Many of us don't know because it's not something we do very often. This leads us into tip number 2. This is to make eye contact. Make eye contact with her. Sometimes we get nervous and we just kind of avoid looking at anyone. No! Create eye contact. That shows that you are confident. Maybe let the eye contact be a little bit prolonged. Let your gaze be warm and inviting. You don't want cold eyes or distant eyes. You want warm eyes. This is something you can practice in the mirror. We're going to talk a little bit about something that just really bothers me. Because once I became aware of it, I can't unsee it. I'm a people watcher, and I've I notice whenever I'm in groups of people that so many people, they have a really boring or cold resting face. You just look at somebody and they're like, "..." And you're like, "I don't want to talk to them." Now often when you talk to them, they perk up and they smile, but your resting face really does matter. So let your eyes be warm and inviting rather than cold and distant. There is huge power in for attraction in something as simple as eye contact. Research has been done on this. If you want to be more attractive to her, make good eye contact. Our next tip to get her to notice you, to feel impressed, to think you're super attractive, is to just have confident masculine body language. Not arrogant body language, but confident. Simple things like shoulders back, a smile, your head held high, again, making that eye contact. These are ways you show that you are a confident, capable man. We tend to look our most attractive when we have good posture. So shoulders back, head held high. This is going to send a signal to everyone in the room that you're confident, you're capable, you're attractive. But it's also going to do something else. I love this. I nerd out about this so bad. If you're in my Academy, you've heard me talk about this. Body language not only affects how other people see us, but it affects our mood, it affects how we feel. So when you put your shoulders back, when you put yourself in a confident position, you are going to feel more confident. So not only are you going to look more confident, but you're actually going to be more confident. And that automatically is going to catch her eye. It's going to be impressive. It's going to attract her. One of the best ways to catch a woman's eye, to really get her to notice you, is when you stand out from the crowd. When there's something about you that's different from everybody else. And the things I'm sharing with you in this video are those things. When everybody's scrolling on their phone but you're the one who puts your phone away and makes eye contact, you stand out. When everybody else is slouching and they have a weird resting face but you look confident and warm and inviting and, I don't know, happy. Why is everybody so afraid to look happy? If you are the guy who looks like that, you are the guy who's standing out. And yes, she's going to notice. My next tip is to be strategic about how you dress. It can be really easy to just throw on whatever clothes you have. Many people don't even think about fashion or style or how they look. They just put on whatever they think fits or whatever they picked up at store. But when you're the man who's intentional about how you dress, that speaks volumes. You may have heard the phrase "dress to impress" or "dress for success." And I like both those phrases, but my personal favorite is "dress to empower." That's what I teach my clients how to do. Dress to empower. The way you dress literally has the ability to transform how other people see you, how other people treat you, and how you feel about yourself. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money. I don't think it should cost a lot of money. But it does need to be intentional. When you are the man who knows how to have just a little extra polish on your outfit, who knows how to have an outfit that's really well put together, that really makes you look amazing, you're going to stand out in the best way possible, and you are going to be noticed. And as with everything else I've shared with you, you don't have to chase her to make it happen. You just stand out in the best way possible. P.S. I have wondered if you guys would maybe like some videos from me on how to dress nice, what kind of some clothing options. If that's something you're interested in, would you please comment "clothes" to let me know? Okay, our next tip for how to get her to notice this one is one of my personal favorites. Makes me a little giddy inside because it's so attractive. This is to smell really nice. There is a huge, huge power, huge, huge attraction that comes when a man smells nice. So yes, make sure you have very good hygiene, that you're clean, that you smell nice, but also wear a nice cologne. Personally, I have a definite favorite when it comes to colognes. I think you should not have anything that's super expensive, but having something that's super cheap makes you smell cheap. It really does. It reminds her of her days in high school, and that's not in a good way. So don't have a super cheap cologne. Instead, you want something that does cost enough to be a good quality. I think you should always have healthier, cleaner options rather than really chemical options. So I'm going to link for you in the description below my favorite cologne. When I smelled— they had a tester bottle on the shelf when I first found it in the store and I was like, "I don't mind if I do." So I picked it up and I smelled it and I— if anybody walked past me they probably thought I was crazy. I'm just smelling this bottle of cologne and like giggling to myself. It smelled really nice. It's like, bam, sexy man. So, you know, that's my unbiased opinion. It smells really good. So I will put a link for you to check that out on Amazon in the description below. But the important part of that is smelling nice will get her attention in the best way possible. Not too much, but it definitely needs to be present. Okay, our next way to get her attention might surprise a few people. This tip is to actually Listen and respond. Sometimes we get so nervous or in our heads when we're around someone attractive that we forget to actually listen to them. But listening to another person is one of the most genuine, authentic things you can do. It helps us feel connected to them. We all want somebody to just understand us, to just— we want to feel seen. We want to feel like we matter. And when a woman is with a man who actually listens and he responds in a way that it's like, "Whoa, he was actually listening to me!" You're going to stand out in such an attractive way. A mature woman, a high-value woman, wants a husband who's a partner, not just a roommate. And so she wants a man she can communicate with. And so when you're the man who listens, who responds, who's present in the conversation, you're exceptional. Because you'd be surprised how many people don't do that. And this leads us to my next tip for how to get her attention. This tip is honestly just to be fun to talk to. Be an interesting person. Smile, be positive, be enjoyable to be around. People really respect positive, confident, interesting people. And when you can show that you're that kind of a person, you're fascinating, you're interesting, you're intriguing, it's hard to feel bored around you. And yes, it makes you stand out in the best way possible. It gets her to notice you without you ever having to worry about chasing her. Now, here's the part many men miss. Getting her to notice you is not the same thing as creating a meaningful connection with her. Many women may see you, they may feel curious, they may even be really attracted to you. But if you don't know how to lead with intention, to build emotional connection and safety, nothing ever develops. The attraction will actually start to fade. This is why I teach you in my free masterclass about creating that emotional connection, helping her feel emotionally and physically safe with you, and how to increase your physical attraction so that she gets those butterflies consistently. You need this connection for you to get to the loving, lasting relationship you really want. Being noticed gets you the opportunity, but it does not create the relationship. So I'm here to teach you those next steps. To watch this masterclass entirely for free, go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. Or check out the link in the description below. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in that training. Okey dokey, here we go. Wake up! You know, it's a little frustrating when you're a blonde and you want to wear a nice black blazer, but you also have naturally curly hair, And so by the end of the video, when you start out the video, you're like, "Yeah, I look good!" Then by the end of the video, it's like all frizzed out and sticking out because you can notice it because it's blonde. And I don't know what to do about it, but I'm not about to stop wearing black blazers. So there you go. It's a little frustrating when I wear dark colors. Anyway, let's get back to topic. Most people are not taught how to create attraction, how to create Oh yeah. Most people are not taught what you— Okay, let's try again. Okay, secret end of the video club. In one of my last videos I did, I mentioned that I've been getting tomatoes from the garden and it made me really happy. So our word for today is very similar, and it's zucchini. Why? Because I now have so much zucchini, I don't know what to do with it. Like, I've got so much zucchini. I'm happy, I'm okay with it, but I also I don't know what to do with it. So that's our word for the end of the video. Never forget that you are amazing. I got so much zucchini, guys.