Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

How To Talk To A Cute Girl~ 😉 (Do THIS First!) #dating

9 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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In this instructional video, the speaker addresses the common anxiety of confronting an attractive person without knowing what to say. She argues that the most effective way to avoid uncomfortable silences and awkwardness is to decide in advance exactly what you will say before you approach. The advice applies both to situations where you already know the person and to first‑time encounters. By planning a simple opening line or conversation starter ahead of time, you create a smoother, more comfortable interaction for both parties, which increases the likelihood of a successful approach.

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Have you ever been in that situation where you're standing in front of somebody really cute and you suddenly realize you have no idea what to say? And then you, like, start sweating, and the longer the silence goes, the more awkward it is, and it's just terrible. Do yourself a favor and just avoid that. Instead, before you ever talk to her, just decide what you're going to say. Now, I mentioned at the beginning of the video that these tips work whether you've known her for a while or have never met her, and this is a really good example of that. For instance, you know, if you already kind of know her or you've met her before, it may be a little bit easier to come up with something to say. However, even if you've never met her, there are still very, very simple and easy things that you can plan to say before you ever talk to her. This is going to put both of you at ease, make you both feel very, very comfortable, and it makes the approach go very, very, very well.