In this YouTube monologue, Coach Melannie outlines three observable behaviors women display around men who are genuinely attractive. First, people—especially women—actively seek the man's attention and remember personal details, which signals admiration. Second, women often look at the man while whispering or giggling; although men might misread this as mockery, it actually reflects giddiness and butterflies caused by attraction. Third, women (and sometimes other observers) directly tell the man he is attractive; these compliments should be taken at face value rather than dismissed as mere politeness. The speaker warns that missing these signs can leave men unaware of their own appeal and encourages viewers to improve their physical attractiveness and learn two additional attraction strategies. He promotes a free masterclass, linked in the video description, where he provides coaching to help men become more attractive and successfully pursue the women they desire.
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3 things women do around very attractive men. Many men don't know that they're attractive, but they really are. The first sign you're a very attractive man is that people tend to seek your attention. They remember details about you. When we respect or admire someone, we tend to want their attention. And so if you kind of feel like people just kind of tend to want your attention, that can be a great sign that you're a very attractive man. Number 2, this one's a little tricky. Women tend to look at you and whisper or giggle. So if there's 2 or more women and they're looking at you and they're whispering or they're giggling, sometimes men will think she's making fun of— that they're making fun of you or that they don't like you. But in reality, yeah, they're probably totally talking about you and they feel giddy and they've got butterflies. And it's a very common thing women do when they're attracted to you. Sign number 3 sounds obvious, but so many people miss it. This sign is that people tell you you're attractive. Sometimes we just think, oh, they're just being nice. And it may be somebody who's not remotely romantically interested. Like, it could be family members or another married woman who's just trying to let you know that you're an attractive man who should hurry up and get married because those young women are going to love it. Or it could be a married woman who appreciates that you look nice and just wants to give you some encouragement. Maybe the other men who are like, oh no, nobody's gonna notice us because he's here, or, oh, leave it to him to get all the girls' attention. Don't just assume that that's them just being nice. If people are telling you you're an attractive person, Believe them. Now what do you do if you've never seen signs that someone's attracted to you? This is a good thing to be aware of. It's a sign that you need to do something to change that. Because yes, you can change that. As a coach, I help men do this all the time. You can learn how to become more physically attractive and you can learn 2 other attraction strategies that you must have to get the girl of your dreams. I put it together for you in my free masterclass. Check out the description to learn how you can watch it for free.
