How Women Really Think About Men 😏

This is how women really think about men. By the end of this video, your understanding of women is going to be better than most men. Get excited about that! The men who understand women are the men who have the power to be happy and successful in love. I know that's kind of a bold statement, but how can we pretend to be good at relationships if we don't even really understand them? Far too many people are telling you a bunch of nonsense about women right now. And honestly, as a coach, this just makes me ache because they're leading people to needless suffering. No wonder so many people feel done with relationships. Honestly, if you have ever felt like you'll never have love, well, it's probably due to faulty strategy somebody taught you. And the truth is, that's not your fault, and you do deserve to know the truth. That is why I'm here. And today in this video, you're going to understand women so much better. Now, not all kinds of women think the same way because not all kinds of women want the same things. Today, we're going to be talking about two of the most common types of women. We'll be talking about how low-quality think about men and how high-quality women think about men. When you understand the difference, you will be so much better at avoiding bad relationships and instead attracting your adoring, affectionate dream girl. Sound good? All right. As we dive in, if you are looking for wholesome Christian dating and relationship more relationship advice, make sure you subscribe. The first thing you need to know about how women think about men is attention versus intention. Low-quality women, they think, "How much attention can I get from this man? What can I get from him?" So this is going to affect how she dresses, this is going to affect how she interacts with you, how she talks to you. While a high-quality woman, the kind of woman who's looking for lifelong love, she's loyal, she's feminine, she's committed, she wants to love you and only you forever. This woman is asking herself, "Well, is this the kind of man I could build a life with, that I would enjoy building a life with?" Do you see the difference? So many women who are low quality, they're not interested in giving to the relationship. They're only interested in what they can get from it. And for a lot of people, that's attention. Versus a high-quality woman who's thinking, "Hmm, is this someone I would want to build my life with?" This leads us right to the second way women think about men. Low-quality women are thinking, "What can I get?" High-quality women are thinking, "Who is he really?" A low-quality woman wants you to take her to lunch, she wants to get money from you, she wants perks and convenience and status from you. Again, she only cares about what she can receive. A high-quality woman though, she wants to know who you really are. That's why high-quality relationships are the best. Because you can be yourself with someone because they actually care about the real you. It's not low quality where, "Well, if you're not willing to take her to lunch that day, she's done." Instead, she cares about who you are. She wants to know about your likes and dislikes, your integrity, your leadership, your faith, your consistency. She wants to know about you. This is why my focus with my clients in my Academy is teaching you how to become attractive by default. Because when you understand how to show to her that you are her dream man, well, of course, she's got to fall in love with you. It really is that simple. Next up for how women think about men is emotional chaos versus emotional safety. Low-quality women are addicted to that drama, that chaos, the inconsistency. Low-quality women love inconsistency because it always keeps them busy and excited and feeling involved. That kind of woman is looking for emotional lows and highs, and she's going to pursue the man who can give her the most. And once he can't anymore, she's done. However, a high-quality woman who wants to build a life and a family with this man, she is attracted to peace and calm and safety. She wants stability. She wants a safe, warm feeling from her man. A godly woman is not bored by peace. She is actually drawn to it. Are you starting to see some of the differences between low quality and high quality? And honestly, are you starting to see why if you're taking advice that's leading you to the low quality women, you're not going to attract the high-quality women. They want totally different things. This is something I see frequently as a coach. I see so many people teaching how to attract low-quality women. And they can technically say it works because it does. It's just going to attract low quality. So if you want high quality instead, you need to make sure you're only taking advice that will lead you to those high-quality women. Makes sense, right? The next thing you need to know about how women think about men is testing games versus just observing naturally. Low-quality women, they're all about testing, they're all about mind games. Again, she thrives on chaos and confusion and kind of the little ego boosts that go along with it. And so women who test, well, it's not the best approach. However, a woman who's, again, wondering if you would be the man she wants to spend her life with, she's not going to test you, but she is going to observe. She is going to pay attention. How does he react in situations like this? How does he react under pressure? How does he handle lighthearted moments? How does he handle life? She does not need to play tricks. She's just mature enough to observe and learn. You may have heard me mention before adult bullies. That's essentially what toxic people are. They're just adult bullies. And they lower themselves to the level of manipulation. And this is really what most testing is, is it's just manipulation and games. That's what low-quality women do, not what high-quality women remotely have any interest in. And let me just mention, if you are wanting to make sure you only take the advice that's going to lead you to the high-quality women instead of taking the very popular faulty advice that only leads to low-quality women, I have good news for you. I've created free training where I'm going to walk you through how to permanently transform how women respond to you, high-quality women respond to you. I'm going to teach you what makes her fall passionately in love with you, and I'll reveal what's been keeping you back from the love you desire. So if you want that uplifting, wholesome dating and relationship advice, you need to take advantage of this. There's a link in the description below. It's totally free. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out that link in the description below. Next up for how women think about men, we have short-term feelings versus long-time vision. Low-quality women are much more interested in what they're feeling right now. They want the thrill, the excitement. This is why flings are so interesting to low-quality women. It's all about, "How do I feel right now?" Now, the danger with this is as soon as she's not feeling that high anymore, she's gonna go find another person to have that high with. There's no loyalty, there's no consistency, consistency. While a high-quality woman, she's asking herself, "Would this man make a good husband and father?" She's thinking long-term. Yes, she wants to feel good, she wants to feel those butterflies, she wants to feel in love. That's a big part of a healthy relationship. But she's looking past the present. She's not just dating, she's discerning. She's trying to see if this is a good idea or not. And if it's not, she wants to get out as soon possible because why waste either of your time? But if this is good, if she's seeing, "Yeah, this guy is going to be an awesome husband and father," well then she's going to fall deeper and deeper in love with you. Next for how women think about men is ego-driven versus purpose-driven. Many low-value women get stuck in kind of a validation loop. "Do men want me?" This is often why they go to bigger and bigger extremes to be attractive. Extremes in their clothing and their makeup and how much skin they show because they need that constant validation. While a high-quality woman is more about, yes, she wants to be attractive, everybody does, but she's more focused on asking, "Am I choosing the right man?" One is focused on being chosen and doing whatever it takes to be chosen, while the other is also, yes, she wants to be chosen, but she's also focusing on choosing choosing wisely. This is why high-quality women naturally have higher standards. They're not going to just settle for anyone because she's mature and wise enough to know and respect that she's making a large commitment, a commitment that ideally should last her entire life. And so she's going to be taking that seriously as opposed to someone who only wants validation and so she's not really thinking long term. You can totally see the difference, right? As we go through this, low quality versus high quality, and honestly the danger of focusing on strategies that attract the low quality women. It's a bad place to be. I'm curious, would you like more videos like this? If you would, please comment "yes" to let me know. I appreciate your feedback. The next thing you need to know about how women think about men is that low quality women see men as a tool, while a high quality woman sees a man as a partner. Low quality women will use men as a tool for for ego, for entertainment, for validation, for status, for whatever it is. She just sees him as a way to get whatever it is she wants. But a high-quality woman, she sees you as a teammate, she sees you as a leader, she sees you as a partner in a shared mission. She wants you to be her best friend. This is a partnership. You're on equal grounds. You're there for each other. You support each other. Men and women have different roles and different things we're naturally good at. And when we come together and we use our abilities and our intuitions appropriately together, we become so much stronger. And a woman who wants lifelong love, who wants to raise a family, she wants that partnership. It's not just about status or ego for her. Instead, it's about that connection and closeness. Next up is low-quality women are attracted to image, where high-quality women are attracted to substance. Low-quality women will fall for some of the flashy things. She'll fall for a man who's very attractive, but he's a total jerk. That surface-level charm works very well on a low-quality woman. Even some of the mind games and the manipulation, she can totally fall for. But a high-quality woman, she looks past the surface. She's looking for depth and values and consistency. She wants to know what your emotional strength is. Now physical attraction is very important to high-quality women as well. Especially because when you're a high-quality man you take care of yourself, you do look nice. There's a whole section in my Academy about that. This is not that physical attraction is not important. However, if you're physically attractive but lack depth, a high-quality woman will lose interest very quickly. But a low-quality woman, well, yeah, she can be completely wowed by that attraction and totally miss the fact that you don't have depth. So if you want a woman who has depth, and if you want a happy, fulfilling, loyal, connected relationship, it's important to, yes, be physically attractive, but also to have a little bit more to you. That's honestly, again, why I teach being attractive by default. Those little micro habits that make you an amazing, high-quality man. Next up, low-quality women will avoid accountability while high-quality women respect standards. A low-quality woman is going to push back against your standards and your boundaries. She's going to avoid responsibility altogether. Have you ever known a woman who just kind of runs from responsibility? That's not a high-quality move. Maybe you try and set boundaries and she just really acts like they don't apply to her, or she feels like you're mean for having those boundaries. It's a low-quality move. However, a high-quality woman she respects a man who has boundaries and lives by them. She wants a man who has the confidence and the self-respect to set boundaries. Especially because as a high-quality woman she has boundaries herself, she's setting boundaries herself. And when she sees that you're respectful about boundaries that really speaks to her. The next thing you need to know about how women think about men is low-quality women are about consuming attention. While a high-quality woman invests intentionally, low-quality women often want to be endlessly chased and never give anything back. We see that a lot in society. She just constantly wants the attention coming in, but she never wants to give anything back. However, a high-quality woman, she does want to invest in the relationship. She wants to reciprocate. She wants to be proactive in showing you her interest and her care as well. When a high-quality woman sees a high-quality man, she believes that he is worth investing in, that this relationship is worth investing in, and she wants to. Women are natural nurturers, mature, high-quality women. Low-quality women, again, are kind of only focused on themselves. But when she has that high level of maturity, of course she wants to give back. So if you are ever in a situation where you feel like it's all give and no take, that can be a huge red flag that this is a low-quality woman you're dealing with. Okay, this next thing is big. The next thing you need to know, this is very important to know about how women think about men. Low-quality women see masculinity as control, while a high-quality woman sees masculinity as leadership. Now, I do want to be clear, I'm talking about real masculinity. Not this ego domination, I don't even know what, that some people are teaching about. I'm talking about honest, true masculinity. Low-quality women might feel insulted or threatened by that masculine leadership. It makes her feel uncomfortable. She doesn't have the emotional maturity to sit comfortably in that space. However, high-quality women, they feel safe and protected and attracted to you for that masculinity. A high-quality woman wants to see you as the protector, the provider, the confident, strong leader. That's what she wants. And when she sees that masculinity in you, it allows her to feel safe enough to fully embrace her femininity. And you're going to benefit from that by being completely adored through her feminine nurturing nature. So she's not going to see masculinity as a problem. She's going to see it as a blessing she's been praying for. Quite frankly, this is why so often the heroes that women have in literature or movies are men who are very, very gentlemanly. She wants a masculine man. So fun fact for you, we are experimenting with new thumbnails. Because I can't think of any new ideas. I have been making thumbnails for 8 years now, and I am totally out of ideas. I just keep recycling, like, the same 6 facial expressions. So we're experimenting with it. I don't know if we'll stay with it or not. It's kind of split between— we're A/B testing them. Some people like them, some people don't. It's this fun artistic style that I think is really cool looking. But anyway, If you've been wondering why we're changing the thumbnails up, that's one of the reasons. It's because I can't think of any more ideas. I have a typo in my list. It says, "Today we're talking about how women really think about me instead of men." That's hilarious. We're gonna do a video on what women really think about me. They really don't think about me, really. Unless they don't like me, which, you know, happens occasionally. Our word for the end of the video today is fries. Fun fact about me, I love fries. I don't like, like, the really unhealthy ones. I like the little bit healthier ones. And sometimes those are potato fries, but today they were sweet potato fries. That's what I had for lunch. So, well, one of the things I had for lunch. So that's the word for today is fries. Thank you for being here. Never forget that you're amazing. If you enjoyed this video, you'll also like this video, which is all about how you You Can Use Your Body Language to Be Completely Irresistible to Women. I will link it here for you. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! I will see you in the next one.