Melannie Gregersen explains why positive thinking matters in dating. Men who focus on the good while acknowledging the bad feel safer to be around and attract loyal, lasting relationships.
There is something just— I don't even know what— incredible about being around someone who's a positive thinker, someone who chooses to see the good. A positive thinker doesn't pretend there's no bad. A positive thinker is fully aware of the bad. They just choose to focus on the good instead. And being around someone like that, there are endless possibilities, life is a beautiful place. And every loyal woman, every woman who's looking for a lifelong relationship is asking herself, "Is this man going to be enjoyable to be around every day? Is he someone I'm going to enjoy being with, spending my life with?" And a man who's a positive thinker is definitely someone who is delightful to be with, someone she looks forward to coming home to. She looks forward to you pulling her close in your arms. She longs to be with you, and she feels safe with you.
