Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Is Flirty Banter Okay? 🤔 #flirting

22 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker expresses a strong enthusiasm for flirting, describing it as an effortless and inherently positive activity. She emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between flirty banter and toxic banter, warning that many people mistakenly view toxic banter as the only or correct style. Flirty banter is defined as playful, light‑hearted, and encouraging, aimed at creating a positive vibe and quickly lifting the other person's mood and self‑esteem. The speaker positions flirty banter as a healthy, mood‑enhancing form of interaction, contrasting it with the harmful effects of toxic banter.

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Let me just say flirting is one of my favorite things ever. So much so that flirting for me is about as easy as breathing. As a matter of fact, it's probably easier for me than breathing. Flirting is definitely a good, positive thing. However, it's important to know the difference between flirty banter and toxic banter, because far too many people are saying that toxic banter is the correct way and the only way, and it's not. Flirty banter is playful, it's fun, it's lighthearted. Flirty banter is always encouraging. It's about creating a positive vibe and making her feel better about herself. It lifts the mood very quickly.