In this YouTube video, dating coach Melannie (Coach Melannie) explains how men can recognize when a woman is attracted to them by observing specific, often subconscious, body‑language cues. She outlines seven primary signals: (1) frequent, warm smiles directed at the man; (2) exposing the wrists, a sign of feeling safe; (3) tilting the head, which conveys openness and subtly shows the neck; (4) speaking or flirting over the shoulder, a playful way to showcase femininity; (5) gradually decreasing physical distance, indicating growing comfort; (6) positioning herself within the man’s line of sight to be noticed; and (7) adjusting her appearance (hair, posture, clothing) to look her best. Melannie stresses that each cue must be interpreted in context and that multiple signs together increase reliability. She also warns that misreading a single sign can lead to missed opportunities or rejection, and she advises viewers to focus on building and maintaining genuine connection beyond reading signals. The video concludes with a promotion for her masterclass on creating lasting attraction, a call‑to‑action to comment “Wendy” at the end, and a suggestion to watch a related video on additional body‑language signs.
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So what does it mean when she does these 7 things around you? What if the way she acts around you actually reveals that she's very attracted to you, she likes you, but you just don't know it yet? As a matter of fact, this is very common. As a coach, I've seen this I don't even know how many times where a man has been completely oblivious to the fact that she's very attracted to him. And she's even maybe trying to let him know but it's going totally over his head. If you wait too long, she's going to think you're not interested. She's going to feel rejected, embarrassed, and hurt. And then she will just kind of move on. Have you ever been in that situation where you thought things were good and then all of a sudden she just moves on? Well, this could be why. You don't want that, right? You want the attraction to grow and maybe lead to a relationship. So what do you do? It's time for you to learn how to read female body language. And today I have some signs she likes you that you you not want to miss. Our first sign is ridiculously common. This sign is that she smiles a lot, especially at you. Now you always want to be a little careful with saying she smiles because it's polite to smile, right? However, if those smiles are directed specifically towards you or seem to happen when you enter the room, that is a huge indication of attraction. We're not talking about just polite smiles. We're talking about frequently smiling when you talk. Maybe even smiling before you even say anything. Her smile may be softer or warmer, maybe a little shy, or maybe even a little flirty. These are special kinds of smiles that are directed towards you. As a matter of fact, an interesting little body language fact for you is women will usually, research has shown us, they will usually try to send you the signal to approach. The way she sends the signal to approach is she will look at you and smile. And she will do this repeatedly. You know, there's a difference between just your eyes scanning the room, polite smile, moving on. But if she's trying to catch your eye and smile, she's hoping you're gonna say, "Shut up, she's gorgeous! I've got to approach her!" But most women will probably only do that a few times before they're like, "He's not interested. He probably thinks I'm ugly." And she's going to just give up and move on to another guy. So pay attention to the smiles. If she tries to catch your eye and smile at you, those are huge signs that she is definitely attracted to you. Okay, this next body language sign that she likes you is hilarious. It makes me laugh every time, but it's very accurate. This sign is that she exposes her wrists. Sounds weird, right? But It's kind of just that innate thing women do when they feel safe with you, when they feel attracted to you, when they feel comfortable with you. So she might rest her hand on her wrist and have her— or rest her head on her hand and have her wrist exposed towards you. It sounds funny, but when I first started studying body language and started making videos for you guys about it, I noticed these signs in myself. And I'd be like, "Oh, he's really cute." "O my goodness, look at what I'm doing!" So pay attention. If she's exposing her wrists to you, that is a huge instinctive thing women do when they're attracted to you. That is something women do not feel safe doing with a man they don't feel comfortable with. Our next body language sign, funny thing women do when they're attracted to you, is she'll tilt her head when she's talking to you or when she's listening to you. This indicates, openness, curiosity. There's also research that shows it's a way for her to show her neck to you as well. It's just kind of that instinctive thing. That's the beautiful thing about body language. It's instinct. It's not something we think about, and that's why when you know what to look for you can tell how someone's feeling. So if she tilts her head when she's listening to you or talking to you, that's a good body language sign of interest and attraction. If a woman is not interested in a man, she's probably she's not gonna tilt her head like she's interested. She's going to be looking for something to get her out of this situation. The next thing women will do when they like you, good body language sign, is that she will talk to you over her shoulder or flirt with you over her shoulder. You've seen it in movies, right? Some people may think, "Why? Like, she won't even look at me. She won't even turn to me. What is she doing?" But let's say you're having a conversation and she says something over her shoulder as she walks away. That is a good body language thing. Most women don't know why they're doing it. I didn't know why I was doing it until I studied it, and now I can't unknow what I know. And what it is is it's just kind of an instinctive thing where she knows that she looks good from that angle. Let's just be real here. It shows off her femininity. And so it's also a little bit playful, a little bit flirty. And so she's talking to you over her shoulder. And this is definitely something I've done. It's definitely an indication of interest and flirting. Our next body language thing women do when they're attracted to you is that she gets close physically over time. Obviously appropriately. This is a— I'm a Christian dating coach, I always believe that you should be very appropriate in how you interact with each other. But watch for progression. The more close and comfortable she feels with you, the more open she's going to be to touch. So maybe at first there will be some space, but then over time she closes that space. She steps closer, she leans in, she sits closer. She tends to kind of come more into your space. When we're attracted to someone without even realizing it, we want to get closer to them. And so you may just kind of, you know, "Scotch a little closer and a little closer and a little closer." If you notice that, don't assume it's just a coincidence. Unless of course you're in a situation that requires it, like you're waiting in line and there's not a lot of space, something like that. I've had people ask me in the comments, "Why can you sometimes see the signs that she likes you but then she rejects you? You ask her out and she turns you down, or maybe you go on a date and it just doesn't go well. Why does that happen?" "If these signs are there, why can she still reject you?" That's a fabulous question. This is honestly why I share the guidelines to know if you're reading the signs correctly. The honest truth is though, there's probably more to it than that. There's something that's going on as you approach or as you try to connect, as you try to interact with her, that is killing the attraction. As a coach, I see this so often. If this is something that happens to you frequently where you see the signs of attraction or you make your move and it just doesn't go well, then this indicates that, yes, learn the signs of attraction, but you also need to focus so much more on creating the connection, creating and maintaining that attraction and connection. Because the attraction does you no good if you just lose it. I've created a video for you that's going to walk you through 3 of the most important things you need to know to create that love, to create that attraction. I'm going to reveal to you how women fall in love, what women need to fall in love. And when you have those things, that's how you maintain and build the attraction and connection and relationship. If you do not have those 3 types of connection that I share with you in that training, it is going to be very difficult, if not impossible, for her to fall in love with you. So just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below. Now that you know what to do next, let's keep going with our signs. The next body language sign that she's attracted to you, that she's interested in you, is that she positions herself to be seen by you. Very common thing women do. "Oh, he's cute. I hope he notices me." Very common. So yes, she may try to be close to you, but she may also not get close to you because she's just trying to be in your line of sight. She may purposefully walk past several times trying to get your attention. She might even let her hips sway a little bit as she does. She may stay in an area where she knows she can easily be seen by you. If it looks like she's just randomly walking past you, it's probably not random. She's intentionally hoping to catch your eye. The next body language thing women do when they're attracted to you is that she may adjust her appearance around you. She wants to look nice for you. Maybe she has some nervous energy and doesn't know what to do with it. Some people call this preening. Honestly, I hate that word. I don't know why, I just really hate it, so I don't use that word. She might fix her hair, she may adjust her posture, she might fix her clothes. This is her subconsciously saying, "Oh, I want to look good for him. I want him to notice me. I want to look my best." With all body language signs, make sure you keep things in context. Is she trying to look her best because the wind just messed up her hair and she's trying to fix it? Or does she repeatedly try to look her best when you enter the room? Also, look for more than one sign. If you only see one sign, don't act on it. You want to make sure you're seeing several. And of course, make sure you check out that free training where I teach you how to create that deep connection. I just love a good hair day, you know, where your hair just finally does what you want it to do. I love it. Hey, with naturally curly hair, you never know when it's going to do what you want it to do because usually it doesn't. So you got to embrace the days where it does what you want it to do. And so she's talking to you over her shoulder. This is definitely something I've done. I've definitely done that before. Why am I having all these memories flood back as I make these videos? It's like, oh yeah, I was pretty obvious, wasn't I? Oh well. Don't assume it's just a coincidence unless of course you're in a situation that requires getting closer. Like you're waiting in line or you're all doing something that requires it. Okay, secret end of the video club. Our word for the end of the video is windy because it's very windy outside. That's one reason actually why we put music over my videos so you can't hear the wind so bad. We don't do that in the Academy. The Academy doesn't have music, but if there's wind or rain or something like that, the music just covers it up very nicely. So if you watch to the end of the video comment "Wendy" and never forget that you're amazing. If you enjoyed this video you will also enjoy this video on body language signs that she's attracted to you. I share different ones than I do in this one so you want to go make sure you check it out. I will link it for you. Thank you my amazing friend and have an amazing day and I will see you in the next one.
