Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Make Her Excited To See YOUR Texts... 😉 #shorts

4 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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In this short lesson from her dating academy, the speaker emphasizes that the most effective tool for flirting and building rapport over text is simply asking the woman questions. By posing genuine, interest‑driven queries, a man signals that he is fun, attentive, and invested, which makes the woman feel connected, safe, and excited to continue the conversation. The advice positions questioning as a proactive antidote to awkward silences and a way to keep the dialogue flowing, ensuring she looks forward to his messages.

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This is one of the things in my Academy when I'm teaching you how to connect with her, how to flirt with her, and how to become a boss at making her feel comfortable with you and small talk. This is, like, my favorite tool. And that is to just ask her questions. As you do this, it makes her feel connected to you. It helps her feel like, "Wow, this guy's really fun to talk to. He's actually interested in me." And it also helps her feel safe because she knows the answers to questions. With humans. That's just how it works. So rather than having those text situations where it all of a sudden just gets really awkward and you're like, "Um, I don't know what to say," start asking her questions. That really helps her feel connected to you and comfortable. It makes her get super excited when she sees that you're the one who just texted