Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Make HER Pursue YOU Now~ #shorts

16 Oct 2022 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, speaker A addresses men who feel frustrated with dating, claiming they have been taught ineffective, manipulative tactics that attract undesirable partners and lead to repeated relationship failures. The speaker argues that these tactics foster mind games and superficial lust rather than genuine love. He urges listeners to abandon such strategies, reset their approach, and focus on behaviors that make a woman fall deeply in love, view the man as a best friend, and envision a long‑term partnership that includes marriage, co‑parenting, and daily companionship.

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I can't tell you how many people just are taught the wrong tactics. They don't know that that's what they're being taught, but they are. And then they come to me and they're like, "Melannie, I can't seem to attract a woman who's not a loser," or "Melannie, all women are fake," or "Melannie, all women are toxic." But what they don't realize is those are just the only women they're attracting. Because rather than focusing on making a woman fall so in love with you that she wants to marry you, she wants to spend her life with you, instead they're using those tactics that lead to the mind games. Can lead to lust. And that is why you are failing at relationships over and over and over again. So it's time to erase that. You can't use any more of those tactics because they're not serving you. Why would you want to? Instead, you need to reset and you need to focus on what makes a woman fall so in love with you that she becomes that special best friend that you get to share all your secrets with and you get to raise children with, you get to come home to every single night,