Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

MASSIVE Sign You're A Highly Attractive Man... 😏 #attraction

21 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker explains that when women (or even married people) ask a man why he doesn’t have a girlfriend or wife, it signals that they find him unusually attractive and can’t reconcile his single status with his looks. The comment reflects an internal assumption that “someone must have claimed him by now.” The speaker differentiates between a woman who merely expresses surprise (a positive sign) and one who overtly hits on the man (which the speaker deems inappropriate). The overall message is that such remarks are a strong indicator of a man’s attractiveness and suggest he may have more appeal than he realizes.

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So if women ask, "Wait, you don't have a girlfriend?" or "You don't have a wife?" this goes to show that you're so attractive she kind of can't believe that you're single, that you're available. She's thinking in her head, "No, he's so hot. Somebody must have claimed him by now." So if you get comments like this, it's a huge sign. And I'll even mention that comments like this can come from people who are married too. They're not blind just because they're married. Now, if she starts hitting on you, okay, she's got issues. She is so stupidly out of line. But if instead she just goes, "Dude, I didn't know you weren't married," and now she's thinking of all her single friends she could set you up with. So if you get comments like that, it's a good sign that you're an attractive man, that you have a lot more going for you than you probably realize.