Men Are NOT Outdated – Here's Why Women Still Need Them

Christian dating coach Melannie Gregersen lists seven reasons women need men, from complementary strengths to emotional stability. She draws on her own experience with an abusive father to argue that good fathers are irreplaceable, and frames the case around God-centered partnership and personal growth.
Chapters
Women need men. We need you. Now I know, I know, that is not the popular thing to say, especially with so many toxic voices in the media. And maybe you even have some of those toxic voices from people in your personal life telling you that you don't matter or you're not important. But today it is time to set the record straight. Women need men, and we want you. A high-value woman, a woman of integrity, truly desires there's a man in her life and she needs you. We're about to go over 7 reasons why women need men. But before we do, make sure you subscribe if you haven't yet. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. And what you learn here is never going to be mind games and it's never going to be sleazy tactics or tricks. Instead, I'm all about authentic strategies that lead to authentic love and a deep connection. So the first reason we're going to talk about why women need men is complementary strengths. For instance, emotional support. This is definitely something a woman really does need from a man. Women and men often have different perspectives, which can create a balanced emotional support system. That's how God set it up. A man's strength in providing stability and reassurance is something a woman deeply values and her feminine heart craves. Another example of complementary strengths is the physical protection. Now, yes, the women can still be strong and they can still be capable. However, high-value women still value a man to help them feel safe and secure in various situations. As a woman, there's just something electrifying about feeling like there's this man that you trust and respect is also there to protect you. A girl never really gets over that knight in shining armor dream that she has. It's definitely something that speaks to a woman on so many levels. Okay, the second reason why women need men is partnership in life's challenges. It makes sense that she would want something like this, right? It's something you're looking for as well. An example of this is shared responsibilities. Life is full of pressures and challenges, whether it be financial or family or something else. A man's presence can mean shared responsibilities, and this can lead to a more balanced and manageable life. Another example of this is problem-solving dynamics. Men often bring a logical, solution-oriented approach to problems. This can complement a woman's intuitive and empathetic problem solving style. When men and women understand how to work together and you have two people who want to work together, we truly do complement each other so beautifully. Another example of why women need men is family and future. For example, fatherhood. The role of a father is irreplaceable. A man's involvement in raising children provides a strong role model for how to navigate life as a strong and capable individual. Another example is, again, providing and protecting. Historically and biblically, men have been seen as protectors and providers. Fulfilling that role provides security and stability for the family. And let me just say, if I could just get a little more personal for a second, the role of fathers is truly irreplaceable. As someone who was raised with a very abusive father, I can testify to how important it is to have a man who wants to be a good father. I know that there are probably many single fathers watching this right now, and I want you to know that loving your children and being there for them is irreplaceable. And even if they don't say anything about it right now, it matters to them. So you are filling a place that nobody else can fill. So thank you for that. Okay, the next reason why a woman does need a man is emotional connection. Men and women can have a very unique emotional bond. The emotional bond between a man and a woman is fulfilling in a way that friendships and other relationships really can't replicate. This deep emotional connection is essential for both partners. And of course, another example is romantic fulfillment. Women seek the romantic love and companionship that only a man can provide, creating a lifelong partnership filled with mutual respect, love, and admiration. Are you enjoying learning how much women need you so far? It's kind of a nice feeling. Pat yourself on the back. If you're enjoying what you've seen so far and you're serious about creating a godly relationship, a relationship that truly lasts, I've got some good news for you. Wait for it. Here comes the drum roll. Brrrp! That was a lame drum roll, but it's all I've got. My elite online program, Attracting Lasting Love Academy, is opening for enrollment on August 22nd. It's a step-by-step blueprint with strategies that have helped countless men just like you become the dream man of their dream girl. Imagine having the confidence, knowledge, and strategy to attract a high-quality Christian woman who's as committed to a lifelong love as you are. In this program, I'll teach you the science-backed strategies and God-centered principles that have the power to transform your love life. Permanently. Enrollment is open on August 22nd for a few days only. And the first 100 men to join get it for 50% off. I would hate for you to miss this opportunity because the Academy is not scheduled to open again until next year. So if you're ready to unlock the love you've always wanted, it's time to join the Academy. Make sure you're on my email list. This is the best way to make sure you don't miss out because I will definitely send emails to let you know. I'm going to share a link in the description below for a free guide. And when you download that free guide, you'll get on my email list automatically. And this free guide has 7 texting strategies to help you charm any girl. So you're definitely gonna want the guide anyway. I'll just put a link to that in the description below and in the pinned comment. Mark your calendar for August 22nd, and let's make your love story one for the ages. Let's keep going with the reasons why women need men. Reason number 5 is growth and development. Being in a relationship with a man can encourage personal growth as she learns to navigate different challenges and perspectives and experiences. It can also help her spiritual growth. For many Christian women, a godly man can be a partner in spiritual growth, helping her stay focused on her faith and deepen her relationship with God. And let me just say that this is critical aspect for a Christian woman. If you want a woman who's close to God, she's looking for a man who can help her get even closer to God, and a man who is trying to get closer to God. So yes, I know that is not the popular thing to say in today's world at all. However, it is true nonetheless. The spiritual aspect is one of the most important when it comes to a relationship. Another reason why women need men is biblical and traditional values. This is God's design. From a Christian perspective, God designed men and women to complement each other. For us to fulfill roles that lead to a harmonious and fulfilling life together. Now, many people are saying that society is evolving, things are changing, and women don't need men anymore. I'd like to give those people a piece of my mind, but whatever. Even with that being said, those are the toxic, noisy ones. High-value women still greatly value the so-called traditional roles where men provide leadership, support, and stability, allowing women to flourish in their unique roles. Masculine and feminine energy need each other. And when that masculine role is being fulfilled in her life by you, she is able to flourish in her femininity. And and really thrive at her unique roles. Another reason why women need men is emotional stability. Men can have a very anchoring presence for women. And let me just say, that is something I don't think I'll ever figure out how to put into words. It's something that is very needed. It's something that her, her whole soul craves. A man's presence can provide emotional stability in times of stress or uncertainty. This can act as a grounding force in a woman's life. Another example is he can be a wonderful source of encouragement and motivation. Your encouragement and your motivation can help drive her towards her goals and dreams and help her pursue them with confidence. I have to just say it one more time. I don't know that I will ever accurately be able to figure out how to say how important a man's influence is in a woman's life. I try and I will keep trying, but I just feel like, words truly do fall short. The honest reality is, is we need you, because that's how God designed us. Just like men need women. It is a beautiful, harmonious, balanced, delightful relationship when you have two people who understand that and are working towards that together. So if you enjoyed this video and you would like me to cover more topics like this, please let me know in the comments. And also remember, if you are wanting to find and attract a woman who truly respects you, a high-value woman who understands that she needs a man in her life, if that's the kind of woman you're looking for, my Academy is where you need to be because that's where you're going to learn the strategies that make that possible. So mark your calendar for August 22nd. I want to give a huge shout-out to everyone who's been so amazing with the Super Thanks. Thank you! And if you've enjoyed this video and you would like to continue to support content like this, consider using the Super Thanks. It's just the link— there's just a link below this video kind of by the thumbs up button. It means a lot, so thank you! If you know a friend who needs to know why he's valued and loved, make sure you share it with him. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! One of these days you're just gonna have such a juicy blooper that the temptation is gonna be so strong to just put it in anyway. Being in a relationship with a man can help woman. Yes, they can! Okay. Okay, secret end-of-the-video club. I have another random story for you. Gah! I know, I'm just full of random stories. Sometimes my life feels a little random. Today, this morning, we discovered a gas leak outside. I know, scary stuff. Thankfully, it was very small, and they came and they took care of it. It's all fine. But, uh, it was still scary and chaotic. So, you know, just wanted to share that with you. I should start a new channel, Random Stories with Melannie. I'd get like 2 subscribers. That'd be sad. I don't think I'll do that. So the word for the end of the video today is valued. Because I want you to remember that you are always valued, and I value your presence here. So thank you for being here. Always remember you're a rock star. Common valued. Mark your calendar for August 22nd, and I'll see you in the next one.










