Coach Melannie breaks down why chasing women backfires and offers seven concrete steps instead: put your phone away, make warm eye contact, stand with shoulders back, dress intentionally, wear moderate cologne, listen actively, and be fun to talk to. These behaviors attract attention naturally without guaranteeing anything.
How to get her to notice you without chasing her. The whole strategy of trying to chase her or make her chase you really doesn't work. So what can you do instead to capture her attention and make her want to be closer to you? Tip number 1 is to stop looking at your phone. Your phone creates a barrier that says you're not inviting, you're not warm, and that you just want to be left alone. But when you instead put your phone away, you're so much more able to interact with each other, and you appear more warm and engaging. But what do you do once your phone Well, tip number 2 is to make eye contact. Warm, happy eye contact, not cold and distant. When you have that eye contact, attraction can grow. She feels a connection to you. Tip number 3 is to have confident body language. Shoulders back, head held high. And make sure you smile. Tip number 4 is to be strategic about how you dress. I don't mean you need to dress super expensive. And certainly don't follow a bunch of trendy fads. But do be intentionable— Intentionable. But do be intentional about how you look. When the way you dress is just a little elevated and a little more polished than everybody else, you're going to stand out in the best way possible. Tip number 5 is to have a nice cologne. When you smell nice, it does insane things for attraction. So make sure that you smell really good. Not too much and nothing too cheap, but also nothing super expensive. Something that's of high quality. Tip number 6 is to actually listen to her. When you are present in the conversation, then you are doing what most people don't do. It's going to help her feel connected to you, it's going to help her want to be with you even more. So be present in the conversation, listen to her. And tip number 7 is to be a fun, interesting, positive person to talk to. People respect confident, interesting people. We think they're fascinating. We respect and admire them. Here's the thing, getting her to notice you does not necessarily mean that you'll get a relationship. You also need to know how to create a meaningful connection with her. Watch my free masterclass where I will walk you through what you need to know to do that. Check out the description to learn how you can access this training completely for free.
