Melannie Gregersen gives men relationship advice on what not to do: don't try to fix all her problems, don't do all the pursuing, don't give wife privileges unless you're married, and don't become her source of self-esteem. The video frames these as red flags to watch for.
Okay, let's sum up real fast what you've learned you should never do for a woman. You do not have to fix all her problems. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't even try. Doesn't mean you can't support her or even occasionally fix a problem for her. That whole knight in shining armor thing is pretty attractive. But if you feel like you have to always solve her problems, it's a definite red flag. Next, you do not have to do all the pursuing. She should be pursuing you too, showing interest and letting you know that, uh, you're attractive to her. Next up, never give her wife privileges unless she is your wife. That's not what makes her want to become your wife. And owning your self-respect and treating yourself and your body like it's sacred is the ultimate form of confidence. Next up, make sure you never become the reason she has self-esteem. And do not ever let her use you as her scratching post. You deserve so much better than that.
