👉 Never Do These Things For A Woman

Never do these things for a woman. If you've been watching my channel for a while, you know that one of the things I love to do for you is expose some of the myths and lies that lead you to a very harmful relationship. We don't want that. No harmful, exhausting relationships. Instead, you deserve a woman who's loving, who's feminine and tender. And you will never attract a woman who is feminine and loyal and loving the same way you attract someone who's toxic and exhausting to be with. So I'm going to be exposing for you in this video some of the things you should never do for a woman. Even if you've maybe heard that you should do these things, you shouldn't. And these are actually— they can be some great signs of a toxic woman to look out for. I think some of the things you're going to learn in this one are really going to surprise you. So pay close attention, keep watching, and let's get started! Are you ready to learn some of the things you should never do for a woman? Okay, number 1 is try to fix all of her problems. Let's just talk about relationships for a second. In a relationship, we should be able to count on each other. We should be able to feel encouraged and supported by each other. However, this does not mean that we should expect the other person to fix all our problems. That's just inappropriate. And sometimes some Some people try to push the responsibility of fixing all their problems off onto another person. Many, many toxic women will do this. And she'll make it feel like you have to do this for her. She'll play that victim card and that it's just not her fault and she just, she needs you to fix it. Or maybe she'll get really nasty and mean trying to get you to fix all her problems. You should never, ever have to fix all of her problems. This is a huge red flag and something you don't deserve. However, what you do deserve is a woman who wants to support you and help you. She wants to help you with your problems, she wants to be by your side and be your cheerleader, and she deserves that from you as well. So this isn't about, "Oh no, we can't help each other." It's just if she feels like you need to fix everything, then yeah, she's not good news. P.S. If this is your first time watching, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find lasting love. If you're looking for a tender, loyal woman, then congratulations, you're in a good spot. No mind games and no drama here. And if you'd like to learn more about working with me and getting coaching from me, all of that is done through my Academy. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to learn more about the incredible strategies you can learn there. Okay, the second thing you should never do for a woman is do all of the pursuing. This is something I've mentioned in a few videos at this point. Men and women technically both pursue each other. We generally see and think of pursuing as a masculine trait. However, women will pursue the man they want in a feminine way. It's gonna look totally different. But you should never be in a relationship where you have to initiate everything, where you feel like you have to bring everything, where you kind of have to beg for attention, you have to beg for anything in the relationship. Instead, here's how I love to do it. Pretend these fingers are two people. Both people should pursuing each other, okay? Both people should be moving closer together. She should be letting you know that she's interested in you. She should be letting you know that she's attracted to you and she likes you as well. Again, she's going to do it in a feminine way, especially if she's a high-value woman, because she values her femininity as well. And she understands if she sacrifices that, then she sacrifices a part of herself as a woman. And that's not good for you, and that's not good for her. So it's not going to be like the whole masculine pursuing approach. The but you definitely deserve a relationship where she's pursuing you just like you're pursuing her. So never do all of the pursuing. If you feel like you're doing all the pursuing in a relationship, might be time to move on. Okay, the next thing you should never do for a woman is probably going to surprise most people. But it's a fact. One thing you should never do for a woman is give her wife privileges before she is your wife. What do I mean by that? Well, The media tends to try and make it appear that if you are intimate with her before marriage, that that will convince her to want to marry you. That's not how it works, just so you know. As a matter of fact, far too often what happens is they got what they wanted and then they move on to the next one. Being intimate with someone is never what convinces you to marry them. The emotional side has to be involved when making a decision like that. So Someone has to earn the right to be intimate with you. And the way we earn something that sacred is by the highest form of commitment, and that means marriage. And as a matter of fact, just because I think it's fascinating, so many people are like, "Oh, marriage kills sex and intimacy." Um, actually, research shows us that the best sex is actually married sex. It is the most fulfilling, and married couples actually have it more frequently than everybody else, including people who just live together. Research has also shown that religious couples tend to have the best and most frequent sex as well. So interesting fact for you there. Very different from the whole Sex and the City vibe we're hearing all over the place, right? So you should never give a woman wife privileges unless she's your wife. Why would you do that? That's never going to convince her to be your wife. You deserve the respect of a woman who is so committed to you that she wants to become your wife before she is intimate with you. I'm saying some things that will not be popular for some people in this video. That's okay. I'm totally okay not being popular. YouTube does not particularly like it when I say unpopular things. But that's okay. I'm not here to please YouTube. I'm here to share facts. Okay, the next thing you should never do for a woman is become the reason she has self-esteem. Sometimes this can be really easy to do. Men can do this as well, but obviously we're talking about women here. Sometimes we try and rely on another person for our self-esteem rather than creating that within ourselves. At the end of the day, so many people think, "If I have a relationship, then I'll feel good about myself." Or, "If he just tells me I'm pretty enough, then I'll feel good about myself." Or whatever it is, something about another person will make me happy. In reality, self-esteem self-esteem is something we have to get ourselves. Ultimately, it comes from our understanding of God and our relationship with God, understanding that we're important to him, that we matter to him, that we matter because of him and because of who we are. Each person is precious. And so it's hard— can you imagine how exhausting it would be to be in a— maybe you've been in a relationship like this— to be in a relationship with a woman who's so needy and has to be validated constantly and who just begs for your constant validation. That's exhausting. Instead, it's important for her to have that confidence within herself already. Yes, it's totally okay and appropriate to get some positive feedback from the person we're in a relationship with. It's totally okay and normal and, and I even think good to want to hear that we're attractive to the person that we're in a relationship with. That's totally okay. That's That's different. But if she depends on you for her self-esteem, that's something you do not deserve to have to put up with in a relationship. So never be the reason she has self-esteem. And let me just say before we get to the next one, if you're wondering right now, "Okay, so this is great. This is good news. But how do I get the kind of woman I really want?" Because the truth is, sometimes it can feel like you're standing in a forest of toxic people and you don't know how to find someone who's not. If that's you, it's a sign that you need to elevate. You need to learn more because what you've learned right now is keeping you here. And until you learn more, you're going to stay here. You need to learn what strategies will take you to that next level so you can, you know, get past this and onto the stage where you find that loving woman. Now, would you like the shortcut? Would you like the easy way to do this? I've already put in the years of research and study to put together these strategies for you so that it It can be easy. This is exactly what I help men achieve in my Academy. So if you would like to learn more about what these strategies are, what it looks like, what your next steps are, just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. That's where you're going to discover the secrets that you're going to wish you had known years ago. So I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. You can complete it in as little as a weekend. And can you imagine having the answers in as little as a weekend? It would be amazing. Amazing, right? So make sure you watch that free training and learn how to get started now. Okay, the next thing you should never do for a woman is let her use you as her scratching post. Now, what do I mean by this? I mean never let her use and abuse you. Never let her be unkind to you. Sometimes society right now has a way of making it sound like, "Oh, women just— That's just how all women are, and women deserve—" "to act that way," and all this stuff that just drives me crazy. I get really upset with the people who say those things. No, you never deserve to be treated wrong. And if she's someone who needs to treat someone that way, she's got issues. That's all there is to it. So never feel like you have to let her treat you unkindly, to belittle you, to criticize you, to rant to you, whatever it is. You deserve someone who is loving, who is loyal, who is kind, who is feminine. And again, if you don't know how to find that kind of woman, I do. I've already put that research together for you. So watch that masterclass to learn strategies and next steps. Okay, let's sum up real fast what you've learned you should never do for a woman. You do not have to fix all her problems. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't even try. Doesn't mean you can't support her or even occasionally fix a problem for her. That whole knight in shining armor thing is pretty attractive. But if you feel like you have to always solve her problems, it's a definite red flag. Next, you do not have to do all the pursuing. She should be pursuing you too, showing interest and letting you know that you're attractive to her. Next up, never give her wife privileges unless she is your wife. That's not what makes her want to become your wife. And owning your self-respect, and treating yourself and your body like it's sacred is the ultimate form of confidence. Next up, make sure you never become the reason she has self-esteem. And do not ever let her use you as her scratching post. You deserve so much better than that! Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Make sure you watch that masterclass to learn your next steps, and I will see you over there. Doo-doo-doo-doo! Just freaked my cat out. That's never happened before. Happened before. Okay, so my dog— I love to sing. And I'm classically trained, so opera, but I prefer kind of more that Broadway style. But regardless of what style I'm singing, as I start approaching those high notes, my dog, he goes, "Oh, oh, oh, oh!" And he's like, "I can't hold it anymore!" And he starts howling. And I'm like, "Is it because it's good or bad?" I can't tell if it's like, "Oh, I wanna sing too!" Or if it's like a, "She's singing!" "Making mega stuff." Either way, it's not particularly flattering, and it has this way of ruining my song. Everybody's a critic. Okay. Super ready. So full disclosure, I have been sick all week. Like, this is the best I have felt for an entire week. I have been out of it. So, um, this video. I don't feel super prepared for this video, but I'm excited to make it. So here we go. Hello, secret end-of-the-video club. Guess what our word for the end of the video is today? Umbrella! Why is it umbrella? Because we're using an umbrella with my lighting today. We usually don't do that. We are today because I'm filming this really late at night because I've been sick all week. And so I barely, barely got this one filmed. The good news is once I get on camera, I usually like, "Hey!" You know, it's fun. And so I forget that I don't feel good. But I have been feeling a lot better today as well. So that's good. Anyway, that's our word for the end of the video. Never forget you're awesome. And I'll see you next time.