Men who jump straight to intense compliments and date invitations scare women off. Start with a friendly introduction and casual conversation instead. Build comfort first, then suggest a date.
The first thing you should definitely not do is be too forward or too aggressive. It can be easy to just feel excited, especially if you see the signs that she's interested in you, and then just be way too aggressive. And what that does is it absolutely terrifies women, and the attraction is gone. If she's scared, the attraction's gone. So what's an example of being too forward? What does that look like? Let's say a man sees a woman sitting at a cafe. And instead of kind of giving her some engaging her level of interest, he just walks right up to her. And he says something like, "Hey, I couldn't help but notice how stunning you are, and I just wanted to come over and tell you that. So when are we going out?" In this scenario, he was being far too direct, and he's rushing things. Instead of first introducing himself, finding some common ground, he just jumps right into a pretty intense compliment, and then he's proposing something as serious as going out. She's just barely seen this guy and all of a sudden he's assuming that they're going out. That scares women. This is why it's best to have a little bit of conversation first and let her feel comfortable with you before you jump into something like that. You do not want to make her feel pressured because most women when they feel pressured are going to have a very negative impression of you. So definitely want to avoid that.
