Master small talk with coworkers and cashiers first, so approaching someone you like feels automatic instead of awkward. Practice low-pressure conversations until the dialogue becomes second nature and confidence-driven.
The third thing you need to know about making a woman totally crazy about you when you wanna flirt, when you wanna approach her, is you need to know what to say. You want to have a game plan. It's really awkward to walk up to someone and then, like, "Hey, how are you?" Now what? Like, it's so painful. So instead, know what you're going to say. Understanding the basics of small talk is incredible for this. It is hard for attraction to blossom and grow and flourish when we feel really awkward. So it's important to try and avoid that. So it's important to understand the basics of small talk and to practice these skills in an environment where you don't feel nervous. The last thing you want to do is start practicing when you're standing in front of that beautiful woman. Instead, practice your small talk with your coworkers, with people in line at the grocery store, with the cashier, whatever it is. If you're practicing those skills, it will become second nature. Those habits are what make it so that when you're standing in front of that beautiful woman, you don't even have to think about it. It feels automatic.
