Psychological Facts About Human Behavior 😏 (Human Body Love And Relationships)

Get ready for some crazy psychological facts about human behavior, especially when it comes to dating and relationships and attraction. These are some powerful little-known facts that help set you up for a lifetime of exciting, fulfilling love. Does that sound like something you'd be interested in? Then you're in the right place. Make sure you stay with me until the end of this video. As we get rolling with this, I'm going to mention another video that's also going to rock your world. If you haven't yet seen this video, make sure you check it out. I will put a link in the description below. Okay, are you ready for these powerful psychological facts? Get ready, they're coming in fast. Let's get started with number 1. Fact number 1 is that the best sex happens in marriage. I know, I know, I know what you're thinking. Media tries to make it look like this single life of sleep with whoever you want is the most glorious and fast-paced and fulfilling and exciting. But research over the years shows us over and over again that actually the best sex happens in marriage. Married couples tend to enjoy it the most, and it's the most fulfilling for them, as well as they get a whole lot more of it. The truth is God told us to keep sex in marriage for a reason. It's not because he's mean or doesn't want us to be cool. It's because there's actual reasons behind that. Honestly, one of the reasons why is because marriage is the ultimate commitment. It's the ultimate manifestation of love and caring about that person. So when you have two good people who say, "Yes, I am willing to be vulnerable. I am willing to give my life to this person," that is the most satisfying intimacy you can have. There are a million benefits to being married, such as married couples tend to make more money, they help the economy more, they tend to have better health and better happiness, and yes, they have better sex. And by the way, as we get to the next one, if you haven't yet, hit that subscribe button. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your go-to source to learn how to find that magical, fulfilling love that lasts a lifetime. So if you're looking for someone like that, or if you already have someone in mind and you're really hoping it blossoms into that kind of love, yeah, you're in the right place. So hit that subscribe button. Ready for fact number 2? Number 2 is that infatuation is totally different than love. They're not the same thing. Now, that does not mean that you can't have a relationship where you feel those butterflies through the whole relationship or have some of those infatuated-type feeling moments. However, far too many people think that infatuation automatically means in love. And this causes a lot of people to rush the relationship because they're high on that infatuation and then it all comes crashing down. If you've been through my Academy, you're already pretty familiar with this. We talk about it a lot because just being aware of this helps protect your heart and set you up for success. What it comes down to is infatuation at the end of the day is just brain chemicals. That's really all it is. And if you get to know this person, you take your time, you don't rush things, once you come off that infatuation high, you can say, "Am I still in love with this person? Is this person really who I want to spend my life with?" And ideally, this will be the right person, and yes, you can totally stay completely in love with this person. But if you rush it and you don't know, that's what leads so many people to wake up one morning and go, "Holy cow, I don't even like this person." This is why as a coach, in my Academy, I coach you through how to handle this. So you can feel those exciting magical butterflies through the entire relationship instead of just until the infatuation wears off. That sounds like a much better situation to be in, doesn't it? Fact number 3 is that people tend to like people who are like them. Sometimes we massively overcomplicate attraction, and way too many people try to turn it into a game, like, "Act like you're not interested in her," or "Pull away to get her attention," or whatever it No, that doesn't work. Just don't even waste your time. It's way too exhausting anyway. Instead, attraction is pretty simple. People tend to like people who are like them. For instance, have you ever noticed that book nerds tend to be attracted to book nerds? And people who like video games tend to be attracted to people who like video games? Or people who like the same music, things like that. It's because we naturally kind of gravitate towards people who are like us. This means, my friend, I'm about to let you in on a huge secret. You ready for this? If you want a woman who is classy, who lives a healthy lifestyle, who is interesting to be around, it's important for you to be doing those same things. This little insight is so important, in fact, that it's the entire basis of my Academy, okay? That's how powerful it truly is. That's why so many men who tried everything they could think of to get the kind of girl they wanted were finally able to have success. Because far too many people are focusing on the wrong areas. But when you focus in the right areas, that, my friend, is your key to success in love. And I'm talking crazy happy love. Can you imagine what it would feel like to go from exhausted and defeated and frustrated to having that proven roadmap that can lead you to the success in love you're aching for? Can you imagine what that would feel like? This is exactly what I'm here to help you master. So to learn more about these secrets and how I can help you even more, go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. In this free training, you are going to discover some juicy secrets about women that nobody else is talking about. But it's insanely powerful, so you need to know about it. And you'll learn more about my Academy if you decide you would like to join me there. So coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will also put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Okay, the next fact is going to surprise a lot of people. You ready for this? At the end of the day, research shows us that most people just want that cliché happy love story. Most people at the end of the day just want that close, committed, tender relationship. Again, media tries to make it— well, not just media, a lot of society is trying to make it sound like the single flashy fling type lifestyle is the most fulfilling and exciting and fun. But at the end of the day, it's not. Far too many people are trying to get clicks and views on the internet by bashing relationships and saying it's better to remain single. And honestly, can I just say, I don't really understand why you would be a relationship coach if you don't even like relationships. Like, I don't really get that, but that's their business, not mine. At the end of the day, most people still want that commitment, someone to come home to every single night, that close tender relationship where you know everything about each other, you share everything, and you absolutely adore each other. And people get those relationships every single day, okay? Don't listen to the bitter people, don't listen to the haters who are trying to make it sound like that's not the case. No, that is most definitely the case. Real love is still very alive and well. Just because somebody else on the internet doesn't know how to create that kind of love, it does not mean that you can't have it. And if you're hitting your head up against the wall right now because you're like, "I have no idea how to get it," that's okay. Take a deep breath. I do know how to help you get it. So I got you. Watch that training and I'll explain more. Quick question before we get to our next crazy fact. Would you like more videos like this? There are a lot of facts that I could also share with you. So if that is something you would like in the future, comment "facts" to let me know, and leave any questions or comments in the comments as well. And as always, a huge thank you to those of you who are so generous with the Super Thanks. It truly touches my heart and helps me continue to bring you this content. So whether you've ever used the Super Thanks before or not, if you'd like to use it with this video, it would mean a lot to me. So thank you! All right, our next fact is one I wish every, every, every, every person on planet Earth knew. So pay close attention. You ready for this? Toxic people are real, but not everyone is toxic. It is true that there are toxic people in this world. Now if you don't know what that means, watch this video if you haven't yet. I will put a link in the description below. Life-changing. Basically, the way I like to define a toxic person is a toxic person is essentially just an adult bully. That's all they are. And if you're in a relationship with an adult bully, it is incredibly harmful and hurtful. Which if you think about the word toxic, if something is toxic It hurts you, it poisons you, it damages you, and that's what these relationships do to us. If you are not aware of the fact that there are toxic people in this world, you're probably going to feel like the world's a pretty dark place because you're quite possibly interacting with a lot of those toxic people, but instead of acknowledging they're toxic people, you just think it's normal and you're just accepting it as "that's as good as it gets." And that's a horrible, horrible place to be where if Instead, you recognize and say, "Wait, there are toxic people in this world, and maybe I know a few of them." Oh my goodness, you will be shocked by the freedom you gain as you just say, "No, it's not me, it's you." And as you allow yourself to acknowledge that and work through that, this leaves room in your life for those joyful, tender, close, loving, happy, non-toxic relationships that you truly ache for and you truly deserve. This is why identifying toxic women is one of the very, very first videos in my Academy. That's before flirting, how to approach her, how to increase your physical attraction, all of that. We start with identifying toxic women because you deserve to be free from that. And it helps you not feel so bitter and so scared and dread relationships. So if you ever feel bitter about relationships, please recognize that you're bitter towards the toxic ones, okay? Not everyone is like that. And you deserve to know how to identify them and start repelling them. And again, if you haven't seen that video yet, I'll put a link in the description below. It's going to help you a ton. Okay, let's Let's recap real fast the facts you have just discovered. You ready? Number 1 is that the best sex happens in marriage. That's where you have the ultimate closeness and commitment and love. You want to kill your self-esteem fast? Share the most intimate part of yourself with someone who doesn't intend to stay. But if instead you have that closeness, that tenderness, that love, it's gonna be a whole lot better. That's how you get more of it, and it's so much more fulfilling. Number 2 is that infatuation is different from love. You can have those butterflies through your whole relationship. As a matter of fact, that's something I think you should have. However, it's important to recognize that infatuation does not automatically mean love. Number 3, people like people who like them. So the ultimate attraction hack is to discover what it is you're looking for in a woman and then make sure you have some of those traits yourself, such as a healthy lifestyle, being classy, drawing closer to God, and someone who is always working to be physically attractive. Number 4 is that most people still want that cliché tender committed love. Again, a lot of people paint the world as a really dark place. I mean, if you watch the news you're going to be depressed, like, all the time. However, at the end of the day, research shows us that most people just wants to love and be loved. And that's a pretty exciting thought, isn't it? And number 5, toxic people are real. You have to be aware of that. However, not all people are toxic. So educate yourself so that you can be free from them and realize you don't have to be bitter about every woman because, you know, not every woman is like that. So with all this in mind, let me ask you a question. Do you want to know how to find the right girl for you and how to set yourself up for success in love so you can have that close, tender, exciting love your entire life? This is something I'm here to help you master. And can you imagine how good it would feel to be a master at this? It would be amazing, right? To learn more, go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will also put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comments. You're going to discover some amazing secrets about women in that free training that I can't wait to share with you. So make sure you check it out now. Thank you so much, my amazing friend, for watching! Be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell and give me a big thumbs up. I want to hear from you in the comments. Would you like more videos with interesting facts like this one? If you would, comment "facts" to let me know. And any other questions or comments go there as well. I love hearing from you. And If you have a friend who needs to know these things, make sure you share it with him. And if you don't yet follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. I share exclusive content in my Instagram stories, so make sure you especially follow me there. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! Secret little behind-the-scenes thing going on right here. There's something special about this video. Did you pick up on it? It's that we're using a much better camera. Fingers crossed this goes good because this is our first time using it. I feel so weird because I can always see myself on my monitor in front of me, but I can't now. So now I feel really, really weird. More than ever, I feel like I'm just sitting in a room talking to a little box. But that's okay. I know you're on the other side, and I'm so grateful you're here. So by the way, let's make this our special secret end-of-the-video club moment. If you watch to the end of the video, comment "secret," because you're in on the secret that we have a new camera. So thank you for watching to the end of the video and for being such an awesome human being. These are some little-known— These are some little— I'm not freaking out, you're freaking out. You'd think as long as I've been on camera this would not feel so weird. But it's because I have seen myself for so many years and now I can't. Okay. Oh, something's in my eye. I got hair in my eyes. Okay. Sometimes you gotta do an awkward little dance. Just makes the world a better place. I'm saying. Okay. I'm a musician. It's in my blood. I have to make music. I can't help it. You're just lucky I haven't bursted in— bursted? I can't talk either. You're just lucky I haven't burst into song yet. I would, but they're all copyrighted. But this mic makes me sound really good when I sing, I'm just saying. Anyway, I have no idea where I was going with that. I don't know how to turn this thing off, so we might just sit here awkwardly for a while. I'm just kidding. I'll figure out how to turn it off somehow. Goodbye! Okay, how do I—