In this monologue, the speaker outlines warning signs that a woman may be exploiting a man rather than genuinely wanting his company. The primary red flag is that she only seeks his presence when she can obtain something—whether a purchase, a favor, or help with a project. The speaker emphasizes the importance of trusting one's gut feeling when something feels off, arguing that intuition is a reliable guide. He differentiates genuine gentlemanly behavior (holding doors, paying for meals) that a high‑value woman respects from exploitative expectations. The talk also warns about online dating scams, including bots or individuals who repeatedly ask for money, urging listeners not to comply. Throughout, the message is that a true high‑value woman respects both the man and his finances, and that men deserve partners who want to spend time with them for who they are, not for what they can provide.
Chapters
Sign number 1 that she is just using you is that she only wants to spend time with you when you're buying something for her or doing something for her. You've heard me talk before about how being a gentleman is so completely irresistibly attractive to a high-value woman. So I'm not talking about the gentlemanly things to do like holding the door open for her or paying for the meal. Those are ways you show her you are confident, you are masculine, you are the protector, you are the provider. And a a high-value woman is truly going to admire and respect you for those qualities. So I'm not talking about that. Instead, I'm talking about someone who, well, she doesn't really want to hang out with you unless you're going to lunch. She doesn't really want to spend time with you unless she has something that needs to be fixed, and then she'll spend time with you. If you get that vibe that this is really just about you helping her with her projects or paying for something, Trust your gut on that one. This is another thing I teach my clients in my Academy. Trust your gut. Sometimes our gut tells us something's not right with this, but we think we're just making it up. "No, they're actually a nice person." No, no, no, no, no. God gave us that gut feeling for a reason. You don't have to explain why. If you have that gut feeling that something's not right, then trust it. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, even if you're just going for a walk. There's no dinner provided on this date. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, not just wants you to buy her things. And this actually goes as well with online dating. Many people will meet someone online, or sadly they're talking to a bot. They think it's a person and it's actually not. And this person keeps asking them for money. Is she your wife? Then why— No, you do not have to give her any money. She is so out of line for doing that. So don't spend your time with someone who's only there to get something from you. A high-value woman is going to respect you and respect your finances, not just try to get something from you.
