A guy warns that women who rush physical intimacy early in dating often use it to create obsession and hide toxicity. He says this pattern signals manipulation, though not every woman who moves fast is toxic. He also criticizes women who use revealing clothing to control men.
The second red flag in a woman is a huge one. This red flag is that she rushes the physical side of the relationship. Now she may even do this in appropriate ways. You know, maybe it's lots of hand-holding, lots of cuddling, lots of, you know, attention that way. However, what many toxic people do is they try to make the other person obsessed with them very early on. And they try to create all those brain chemicals really fast so this person adores them and loves being with them, and it completely masks the toxic underside. So if someone is rushing the physical side of a relationship, it can be a huge red flag that this person is toxic, this person may be manipulative, and you need a little bit of space. Now, I don't want to by any means say that anyone who rushes the physical outside— or the physical side of relationship is by default toxic. However, it's still a very unwise thing to do. So see that as a red flag because it is. It is pretty appalling to me to see when women will try to use their bodies— dressing very revealing is another example of this— women who will try to use their bodies as a way to control a man quickly. It makes me sick. So that's why I'm warning you about it. It's a problem.
