A flirting line that works: "I sometimes get really nervous about what to say when I'm with you." Vulnerability disarms people and makes them feel safe. Research shows people are drawn to those who admit nervousness instead of hiding it.
Okay, so this next flirtatious line, you might, when you hear it, you might go, "Wait, why is that flirtatious?" But just hear me out, okay? It's good. "I sometimes get really nervous about what to say when I'm with you." I know what you're thinking. Feels a little bit vulnerable, but that's exactly what makes it powerful. This is something I teach my clients in my Academy. Often the best thing to do is just embrace the nervousness, okay? What this does is it, oh, puts you at ease. And the truth is she's nervous too. And so it gives her permission to really to just relax and let it go as well. It's never a weakness to admit something like that. The truth is research has shown us over and over again that as people we are really charmed by and impressed by other people who are willing to be vulnerable. So showing a little bit of that vulnerable side is just gonna pull at her heartstrings.
