A woman wants to marry you when there's deep mutual trust and she sees your kindness even at your worst. Compassion and tenderness matter more than perfection. Both partners striving to be better creates something magical.
a relationship is a very intimate relationship. This is— ultimately, in marriage, this is the closest you will ever be to someone, both emotionally and every other way. And so you need to know that you can trust this person, right? Just like you need to know that from her. And so it's important that she can tell that you are a compassionate and kind person, that you can see her at her worst and still be compassionate and loving and tender with her. That's, in marriage, that's what both people need to understand. That just needs to be part of it. And the good news is this is a beautiful thing because it allows both people to be imperfect, but actively trying to be their best. And when you have that, it's absolutely magical.
