A partner who loves you will give affection freely, not make you beg for it. The speaker explains the 5 Love Languages and argues that when you show love in the way she needs, she'll naturally want to reciprocate.
If someone truly loves you, they're going to want to give you affection. Sometimes, maybe you felt this way, sometimes we tend to feel like we have to beg for another person's attention, or we feel like it's kind of a fight to get the affection that we want. That is a sign that this is not a good relationship for whatever reason. You absolutely deserve affection. That's one of the main reasons we want a relationship, to have that closeness, to have that tenderness. And now Affection can be manifested in many different ways. If you are not familiar with the 5 Love Languages, I would suggest just do a quick Google search about that. Different people feel love different ways. And when we truly love someone, we want to show love the way they need to feel loved. So this means you'll do it for her, and it also means that she'll want to do it for you.
