Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

She's Hitting On YOU When She Asks THIS... 😉 #flirting

25 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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In this short YouTube segment, the speaker explains that when a woman asks a man whether he ever thinks about settling down, it is a strong flirting cue indicating she is interested in a long‑term relationship, marriage, or children. The question is not typically asked at random; it serves as a gauge of the man’s openness to family life. The speaker also warns viewers to avoid pursuing married women, emphasizing that any flirtatious signals from a married woman should be ignored because she is already committed. Overall, the advice advises men to interpret the “settling down” question as a positive sign of interest—provided the woman is single—and to stay clear of married women.

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The next question women will ask when they're hitting on you, when they're attracted to you, is something like, "Do you ever think about settling down?" This is a good way for her to kind of gauge if you're someone who's interested in a family life, if you're interested in marriage, having children. And that's not usually something you just randomly ask people. Unless it's like, you know, a married woman and she has this friend and she's like, "Oh, are you interested in settling down? I want to set you up with with my friends, you know? So, you know, take some of that into consideration. By the way, I get a lot of comments about, "Oh, married women are showing me these signs." Why are you even thinking about reacting to that? If she's married, she is committed to another man, brother, and you should just have nothing to do with her. Her issues are her own. Let her keep them. So assuming she is not a married woman, if she is asking you if you ever think about settling down, that is a very good sign that she's wondering If you're someone who would enjoy being married and wants to be married, that's pretty good.