Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

She's Nervous Too 😅 #shorts

7 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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In this short coaching monologue, the speaker—who runs a dating/relationship academy—shares a core lesson for clients: instead of fighting nervousness, they should accept and acknowledge it, both in themselves and in the person they’re interested in. By openly recognizing that both parties are nervous, the speaker advises adopting a relaxed, playful, and fun mindset rather than striving for perfection. This approach reduces pressure, creates a more enjoyable interaction, and makes the other person feel more comfortable. The speaker emphasizes that being playful is effective because it eases tension and fosters a positive experience for both people.

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Something I teach my clients in my Academy is that sometimes we just have to accept the fear. Sometimes we just have to accept the fact that we're nervous, that we're scared, and it's okay. So sometimes fighting it is the worst thing you can do. Sometimes you just have to acknowledge, "Yeah, I'm nervous." Because guess what? She is too. It's just part of the process. So when you just kind of say, "You know what? It's okay if I'm nervous about this. I'm just gonna relax. I'm just gonna be playful. I'm just gonna have fun," that's how you set yourself up for success. And it's going to make her feel so much better as well. You don't have to be perfect at this. She's not going to be perfect at this. Just have fun with it. Another reason why this is so effective is because playful people are just