Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

She's Nervous When You... 🙈 #datingadvice

28 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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In this segment of her dating‑advice video, Melannie Gregersen reminds viewers that both parties on a first date are often nervous, especially if the woman is non‑toxic and authentic. She advises keeping the interaction casual and natural, breathing deeply, and recognizing that shared nervousness can actually bring people closer together. Gregersen emphasizes that the woman also has a role in sustaining conversation, so both should relax, grant each other grace, and let the dialogue flow without pressure.

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The good news is you can and should just keep it casual and really natural feeling because, yes, she's nervous too, okay? So if you're feeling nervous, she is too. And again, if she's a non-toxic girl, this actually, because you're both feeling these emotions, it can honestly bring you closer together. You both know you're here to break the ice, you're here to chat, hopefully maybe get a little flirting in, and see how you like each other. So you're both in the same boat here. So just keep— just relax, let it go. She's feeling the same way, and that allows you both to have some real grace for yourselves and each other. And remember too that it's her job to help with the conversation. It's her job to keep it going and make it interesting as well. So it's okay. Deep breath.