She’s Waiting for You to Approach 😏 11 Can’t-Miss Signals!

Can you imagine how much easier it would be to approach a beautiful woman if you already knew that she was attracted to you and she wanted you to approach? That would be so much easier, right? It would be incredible. Knowing when to approach a woman is just as important as knowing how to approach her. So today I'm sharing 11 signs she's secretly hoping that you'll approach her. These are subtle yet powerful ways to gauge her interest, so you can make your move. And just in case this is your first time watching, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I am your go-to source to learn how to find the adorable love of your life, make her fall crazy in love with you, and keep that love forever. So make sure you subscribe! Okay, the first sign she wants you to approach her is that she finds a way to be in your line of sight. If she's consistently finding ways to place herself so that you can see her, it's a very good indicator that it's because she wants you to see her. She wants you to notice her. This could mean she places herself where you naturally tend to look. Like if you're sitting over there, she's gonna stand over there where you can see her. It can also mean she will walk past you several times, you know, hoping that you'll notice as she walks by. This is a way for her to try and catch your attention without being too awkward or obvious about it. This is an especially good sign if she tries to catch your eye, make eye contact while she's doing it. And this leads us right into the next sign she wants you to approach her, which is that she holds eye contact repeatedly. Sometimes, you know, your eyes are just scanning the room and you happen to lock eyes with someone. That just happens. But when it consistently happens, it's a very, very good sign that she is trying to catch your attention. She's hoping you're thinking, "Wow!" "That girl's gorgeous. I want to talk to her," and that you'll come over. She's trying to show that she's friendly and open and wanting you to approach. Now science has actually shown us that one of the most common things women do when they're attracted to you, they want you to approach, is she will try and catch your eye and hold it for a minute. And then, you know, she might look away and then she'll do it again. Now most women will— they think this is super obvious. If she's not interested in you, she's not she's not going to want to make eye contact with you, okay? That's just something that women kind of understand. If there's a guy they don't want to, you know, interact with, they're going to try and avoid eye contact with him. But if instead they want to get to know this guy better and they're attracted to him, she's gonna try and catch your eye and she's gonna try and hold that gaze for a while, and then she might look away and then try again. Here's the thing though, most women will only try this like 4 or 5 times before before they give up. They're like, "He clearly doesn't think I'm attractive, otherwise he would have come over here by now." So make sure you're paying attention to that. It might seem subtle, but it's actually a pretty big indicator. Again, if she doesn't want anything to do with a guy, she's going to avoid eye contact. But if she's trying to catch your eye, that means something. Okay, the next sign she wants you to approach her is that she positions herself nearby. This one is kind of similar to trying to be in your line of sight. However, this is where you may feel— notice that like slowly inching closer to you. Maybe she starts clear across the room and she makes her way slowly over. Or maybe she's standing a little ways away but just kind of keeps, you know, getting like a little bit closer. She's hoping you'll notice her. This can also look like her just lingering nearby even if there's no reason for her to be there. Or maybe she makes up a reason to be there. But if she's just kind of trying to be close to you, it's because she's trying to make it as easy as possible for you to notice her. She's hoping you're gonna think she's gorgeous and you're going to want to talk talk to her, you're going to approach her. The next sign is that she smiles at you, especially if it's repeated, if she smiles at you frequently. Let me explain this one. The reason I wanted to include this in the list of signs is because it's one of the most common signs that a woman's attracted to you. However, you do want to be careful that you don't just assume, "Oh, she smiled at me, she must love me." Sometimes she's just being polite, especially if she's like, at work, or if you just like walk in the room and she's just saying "hi," something like that. However, especially if she has a warm smile and she tries to catch your eyes and show that warm smile to you, is one of the most common signs that a woman's attracted to you. She wants to appear approachable and open and friendly and attractive for you. It's kind of like I teach in my Academy. One of the best things to do when you're reading body language is make sure you see more than one sign, okay? If the only The only sign you're seeing is that she smiles and it's because she's the receptionist at the receptionist desk, okay, that's not necessarily a sign. But if you notice she smiles at you a lot and she's trying to catch your eye and she's trying to be close to you, okay, now you've got some good evidence that, yeah, she wants you to approach. Because here's the thing. Remember that women actually pursue men too. Most people don't know that, but women totally pursue men. However, just like you're naturally drawn to her femininity, she finds your masculinity absolutely mesmerizing. It's like I teach my clients in my Academy. She is going to want to pursue you in a feminine way, and she's going to want to be pursued by you in a masculine way. She absolutely craves that from you. So knowing the body language signs she's attracted to you is a huge tool. I'm sure you see that even with just the few signs I've shared so far. However, I do want to mention, make sure you don't just stop here. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see people make. You've also got to know how to nurture this attraction. The attraction's there. If you're seeing these signs, the attraction is there. You need to make sure you know how to nurture it. Because it's actually pretty simple, but most people are not doing it. This is why so many relationships fail. I actually have a free masterclass where I walk you through the 3 biggest secrets you need to get and keep your dream girl. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to sign up to watch this, or I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. The relationships that fail are failing for a reason. And if you want a relationship that succeeds, you need to know these things. I can't wait to share it with you. So make sure you sign up to watch it today. Now that you understand that, let's keep going with the signs she wants you to approach. Sound good? The next sign is that she mirrors your movements. This sounds kind of funny if you haven't been aware of it up to this point. But when we are trying to create chemistry with someone or when we're attracted to someone, without even realizing it, we can actually start mirroring their movements. So something like copying your gestures or your way of saying things or your expressions, these are ways that it just kind of reveals that it's because you're important to her and she's attracted to you. It's showing that she's in sync with you, and that's a big deal. The next sign she wants you to approach is that she finds excuses to make small talk with you. For instance, she may ask an open-ended question. Or she may comment on something around you, trying to start a conversation. Let's say you're standing in line at the grocery store or a restaurant or something, and that really cute gal just, like, makes a random comment about something. This is a great way for her to try and chat with you, to try and get to know you a little bit better, help break the ice. And it's a great indicator of her wanting to talk to you, wanting to have a conversation with you. Sometimes the random things that happen are not so random. The next sign is very common. This is that she plays with her hair or jewelry. This is a very subtle way for her to try and draw attention to herself, try and show her— she's hoping you're attracted to her, she's hoping you'll notice her. It's a great signal that she's interested, that she noticed that you're cute. This next sign is a very big one. You ready for this? The next sign that she wants you to approach her is that she has open body language. If her body is facing you and she's not crossing her arms, it's very likely that she is open to interaction with you. If instead she's closed off, her arms are folded, her arms are crossed, maybe her body is facing away from you, she may even try to, like, have her head down, try to avoid eye contact, those are all really common signs of "No, please don't talk to me. Don't approach me." But if instead her body language is open and there may be a smile there depending on how nervous she is, and if she's trying to be open towards you, she's trying to show, "Hey, I'm friendly. I'm open. You know, come talk to me." The next sign is that she glances down after making eye contact. If you've been following me for a while, you've heard me mention it as the chin tuck. It's very common when she's able to make that eye contact to do the little chin tuck. It's like a little feminine thing. It's also the "oh, I can't breathe" kind of a thing. It's kind of a shy way to show her interest and indicates that she's hoping you'll notice her, she's hoping you'll approach. The next sign she wants you to approach her is kind of crazy, but it's also, it's very telling. This sign is if, like, you're in a social setting and somebody makes a joke and she laughs at the joke and then looks at you. Or something happens and then she looks at you. This shows that she feels a connection to you and she's hoping to build a connection with you. It can also be a way, perhaps, to invite a further connection because it's like, "Hey, now we have something to talk about." But it's very common when there's someone you're attracted to, the person who's important to you in the group, when something happens you're going to look at them. And the next sign that she wants you to approach her is a funny one. This sign is that her friends notice you too. If you notice when you walk in the room, or if you're already in the room and she and her friends walk in or whatever, if they're nudging her and teasing her and trying to encourage her and, you know, all that stuff, it's because they've talked about this a lot and they're trying to support their friend and, you know, kind of tease their friend because that's what friends do. And so if there's a reaction from her friends. Her friends aren't trying to hide it. She's trying to hide it because, you know, we get shy, we get embarrassed. But her friends aren't going to so much. And so if you notice a reaction from her friends and it's like a positive reaction, that's a good sign that there's interest there. She's talked to them about you. And that can indicate that, yeah, she's interested. So approach her. So now that you understand the signs that she wants you to approach her, make sure that you you actually do approach her. Otherwise she's going to think that you're not interested. She's going to think that you're rejecting her, you don't like her. Also make sure you watch that free masterclass so you know the biggest mistakes to avoid with women and what to do instead to make her heart yours. Again, just coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will also put a link in the description below and the pinned comments. Thank you so much, my wonderful friend, for watching! I hope you enjoyed this video. I certainly enjoyed making it for you. 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