Holding the door matters, but only if you mean it. Real respect, not a tactic to impress her, is what high-value women actually want. Toxic women will reject it anyway, so it's a useful filter.
It is true that there are toxic women out there who are unkind to you for holding the door open and doing just gentlemanly things. If she can't handle being treated with respect, you really don't want her in your life. However, a high-value woman truly treasures a man who is a gentleman, who is respectful. Women feel safe with you. They admire you. You are one of the exceptional ones who goes out of your way to be a gentleman. And that's the kind of man she's always wanted. Now I mentioned that you're a gentleman because you choose to be. And it's important to note that there's a difference between being a gentleman because you wanna get the girl versus being a gentleman because you choose to be an honorable, respectable man. If you just hold the door open just to get the girl and then you don't care the rest of the time, it's not who you are. And she's going to figure that out. And all attraction will die. But if instead you hold the door, even if it's not for a cute girl, maybe it's for an elderly couple, or you go out of your way to be kind to people in that sense, that shows that it's a part of who you are. And that's the kind of man she's been praying for. You are respected because you are respectful. That's the best way to get respect from someone, is to be respectful, because it shows that you are an exceptional human being. It helps you be seen as a leader as well.
