Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Sign A Woman Likes You And Is Trying Not To Show It... 😉 #datingtipsformen

17 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this short dating‑advice monologue, the speaker explains that a key indicator a woman likes a man—even if she tries to hide it—is her tendency to point out similarities between them. She may make casual comments such as “We have so much in common,” “We’re like twins,” or “We make a great team,” referencing shared tastes in food, movies, music, etc. The speaker argues that these remarks are not merely small talk; they are a deliberate, subconscious effort to build rapport, make the man notice the common ground, and subtly signal attraction. By emphasizing shared interests, she hopes the man will view her as more attractive and feel a stronger connection.

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Sign number 2 that she likes you, even if she's trying not to show it, is that she finds similarities between the two of you and she points them out. An example of this would be, "Oh my goodness, we have so much in common!" or "We're like twins!" or "Oh my goodness, we like so many of the same things!" or "We make such a great team!" Things like that. Even if she's not intending to be obvious about the fact that she likes you, she's really hoping you'll notice that you have a lot in common and maybe "Maybe you'll like that too. Maybe you'll think she's attractive." So it can sound like a very casual thing to say. But if she's trying to point out those things, "Oh my goodness, we like the same kinds of food, we like the same kinds of movies, the same kinds of music," this can be a very clear indication that she's trying to create that rapport and trying to help you see how attractive she is and help create that interest. And, you know, she's doing, like, a little happy dance in her head because she's like, "Ah, we have so much in common! This is amazing!"