Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Sign She’s Waiting For You To Approach Short 😍 #attraction

19 Feb 2025 · 1 min

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In this short, the speaker explains that one of the most common ways women signal attraction is by trying to catch and hold a man's eye contact repeatedly. She will look at him, hold the gaze for a moment, look away, and then repeat the process. Women generally consider this behavior obvious: if they’re not interested, they avoid eye contact; if they are attracted, they seek it. The speaker notes that most women will only attempt this eye‑contact cue about four or five times before assuming the man isn’t interested, so men need to be attentive to these brief signals and respond promptly. The overall message is that subtle eye‑contact cues are a strong indicator of interest and should not be ignored.

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one of the most common things women do when they're attracted to you, they want you to approach, is she will try and catch your eye and hold it for a minute. And then, you know, she might look away and then she'll do it again. Now, most women will— they think this is super obvious. If she's not interested in you, she's not going to want to make eye contact with you, okay? That's just something that women kind of understand. If there's a guy they don't want to you know, interact with, they're going to try and avoid eye contact with him. But if instead they want to get to know this guy better and they're attracted to him, she's gonna try and catch your eye and she's gonna try and hold that gaze for a while, and then she might look away and then try again. Here's the thing though. Most women will only try this like 4 or 5 times before they give up. They're like, "He clearly doesn't think I'm attractive, otherwise he would have come over here by now." So make sure you're paying attention to that. It might seem subtle, but it's actually a pretty big indicator. Again, if she doesn't want anything to do with a guy, she's going to avoid eye contact. But if she's trying to catch your eye, that means something.