Signs She Likes You: 21 Things She Actually Says 😉

Let's talk about the signs she likes you, specifically 21 things she actually says. Okay, you know this gal and she is gorgeous and you really like her. You think she might like you too, but you just can't tell. Maybe you've already learned some of the body language signs of attraction, but you're just still feeling unsure. What do you do? I've got good news for you. Let's make it really easy. As helpful as it is, because it truly is, to know the body language signs of attraction and how to know if she likes you that way, sometimes it can feel a little easier to know what to listen for, to know what she will say. Listening for specific things that reveal her feelings for you is a very powerful tool. In this video, I'm going to be sharing 21 things that women will say. Now, because every woman is a little bit different, some are going to be more inclined to say one thing over another. And this is why it's important that you have a wide variety, you have a big list of things to look out for, so do make sure you watch until the end. And just in case you're new here, if you are looking for a happy, lifelong, authentic relationship, no more mind games, no sleazy tricks, then be sure to subscribe. I only share the science of attraction with you, not popular opinion or mind games. So if that's what you're looking for, you're definitely in the right place. Let's get started with these signs that she likes you and what to listen for. To make this easier, because it's a long list, I'm breaking it into 3 categories. The first category of things she will say when she likes you is that she will hint that she wants your attention. And let's just be real for a second. We all kind of want the attention of the person we're interested in, right? So it's a pretty natural way to react. She might say something like, "You never text me anymore." Let's pretend that there was some kind of group thing going on or whatever it was and you were texting fairly frequently. But then for whatever reason, that texting stops or even just slows, if she says something like, "Hey, you never text me anymore," this is her revealing that there was something special for her about texting with you and communicating with you, and she's missing that. That's not something you do for someone you have no interest in texting anymore. A similar example is she might say something like, "I thought you forgot about me." This reveals that she cares whether you're thinking about her or not. Now, I do want to point out this should never come because you pulled away to make her want you. That's a mind game. Nobody wants a relationship where you have to pull away from the other person in order to have any kind of affection. I'm not talking about that. But if you're in a situation where naturally there just, for some reason, hasn't been communication for a while, and she points out that she's missing that, that she wants that connection, that is huge. The next thing she might say, let's pretend you're at a party or something something and maybe you notice each other but you don't get a chance to talk. If she says something like, "You didn't even say hi to me!" Not, like, necessarily in a mopey way, maybe in a playful way or something like that, this again shows that she wanted to interact with you. She wanted that opportunity to connect with you. When we're not interested in someone, we might just think, "Oh, that's too bad," and move on. But when that person we're really attracted to, we don't even get to say hi to them, We're just a little bit broken inside, and we feel it. So if she is expressing that, that's a really good sign. It helps show that she wanted your attention specifically. Another example of her expressing that she likes your attention, she wants to connect with you that way, is just something like, "Well, I was wondering when you were gonna talk to me." This is kind of an invitation disguised as a complaint. Make sure it's done playfully, not manipulative. But it's a good way to be like, "Hey, I was wondering "I was wondering when you were gonna talk to me. How are you doing?" It shows that she cares whether you interact with her or not. Another very common thing women may say when they like you is, "You're hard to read." There are a couple reasons for this, but usually it can be because she's trying to figure out if you like her. And she's finding it very hard to tell. That's a fairly normal thing. You already know this, that's why you're here. When we're attracted to someone, to just really struggle being able to read them specifically, and how they feel about us. So if she potentially says something like, "You're really hard to read," this can be a sign that she's trying to figure out how you feel about her. Now before we move on to the next category, I do want to mention something about attention. It's perfectly healthy and normal to want attention from someone you're attracted to. But do make sure that you are looking for signs that she's not a needy or toxic woman. Because sometimes when we're really seeking attention and validation from someone, it can actually be a manipulation thing. High-value women will absolutely say these things in playful, natural, non-manipulative ways. So you definitely need to know what they are. But it's like I teach my clients in my Academy, it is critical that you know how to identify and avoid toxic women. It's so much easier than getting caught in a relationship with a toxic one. So just be careful that you are looking for signs to see if she's just a needy or toxic person. That's the only thing you need to know with those. Okay, our next category of things women will say when they like you, this is about just the subtle emotional intimacy and connection. Emotional connection is a secret superpower when it comes to love. This is what makes a relationship and your connection feel real and tender. That's why it's one of my favorite things to teach in my Academy. Here are a few signs that she's feeling that connection with you. She might say something like, "I can tell you anything." When she's expressing that she feels safe to open up emotionally to you, that is huge. That is a trait a woman wants in a husband. A relationship is a little bit vulnerable. And that's why we need that emotional safety and connection. We need to know that it's safe for us to just be ourselves with this person. If she feels like she can tell you anything, that's a very strong sign of emotional attraction. Another big one is if she says something like, "You make me feel safe." Both men and women need to feel safe. But there's something built into us as women to need to feel protected. We need to feel like we are watched over, we are cared for, that there's someone, there's a man there to help and take care of us. And when we find a man who helps us feel sheltered and protected, we love protective men. We absolutely do. Her femininity craves that masculinity in you. And so if you are a man who's making her feel safe, this is revealing a whole world of attraction. It's revealing that she sees you as confident and capable. It reveals that she does in fact feel safe connecting and opening up with you, which is huge if you want a relationship with her. There are so many reasons why it's a good sign of attraction if she lets you know that she feels safe with you. Another big sign of emotional connection is, "I always feel so much better after talking with you. This shows that there's something significant about talking to you for her. Yes, again, like I mentioned, do make sure it's not in a needy, manipulative way, that she's not just complaining and whining to you all the time. But we all, as humans, we ache for someone we can just connect with and talk to. Yes, about maybe some emotional or heavy topics, but also just in general. If I've said it once, I've said it a million times, People like people who make them feel good. And so we love being around people who help us feel like we can just open up about anything and connect. So if she's walking away from interacting with you feeling good, feeling better, that's huge. Another really fun sign that she feels emotionally connected to you is, "You just get me." This is revealing that she does feel a connection connection to you. We love being around people we feel understand us. We feel ourselves when we are around them. This is, again, something women definitely want in a husband. So when she says, "You just get me," this can be a great way to sign— or a great signal that she's feeling more than just casual friendship. This next one can sound like maybe it's not a sign she likes you, but it can also be a sign that she does like you. This is particularly true for a woman who may be a little bit shy or she doesn't want to be too bold. She may say something like, "Wow, I wish more guys were like you." This can be a way that she is trying to express, "I noticed something about you that's really attractive that I really like." And it's a way for her to comment on that and share about that without it being overly obvious. Maybe don't see it as an absolute sign that she's in love with you, but it can be a doorway. It can be an invitation to start seeing, "Well, if she likes certain things about me enough to appreciate them, let's look for some additional signs of attraction." Now, this next category I'm going to share with you is much more direct. But before we get to that, I want to mention something very important. Often when you start learning the signs that she likes you, one of two things happens. One is you might think, "Yes! She likes me!" But if you don't do anything after that, the relationship isn't going to get any farther than this. As a matter of fact, it will start to dissolve. At some point, action has to be taken to nourish the interest into affection. That's scenario number one. Scenario number two is you might be thinking, "What is wrong with me? "I never see signs of attraction. The kinds of women I want are never attracted to me." And that's a really hurtful place to be in. Thankfully, you don't have to stay there. Whether you are in situation 1 or situation 2, there are some key things you need to know. I've created a free training for you where I deep dive into what you need to know and what you need to do next so that you can ultimately have that authentic lifelong love with the girl of your dreams. I literally help men do this every single day. And I want to help you too. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below to access this training completely for free. The men who understand women and how to create an authentic, strong connection are the men who are successful and happy in love. Isn't it time that you have that too? Make sure you watch that training. Okay, this next category of things women say when they like you, as I mentioned, is much more direct. It's still feminine though. Not all women will do this, but some definitely will. You ready? Number 1, "I like talking to you." That's not as direct as it could be, but take her at her word. Why does she like talking to you? Sometimes when we think of flirting, we just think of compliments about physical appearance. And that's definitely a part of flirting. But there's more to a relationship than just looking at someone, especially Women frequently bond through talking. And so if she's expressing that she likes talking to you, that's a very good sign. The next thing she might say is, "I miss you." This kind of is a callback to what we mentioned at the beginning of this video, expressing that she wants your attention. But this one is even a little bit deeper. Let's say you're not actually dating and she just hasn't seen you for a while. If she's expressing that she she misses you, that's a big deal. It shows you mean something to her, you matter to her. Maybe she'll say something like, "You look really nice today." This is a very flirtatious, fantastic thing to say when you're attracted to someone. She may just say in general, "You look really nice today." Or she may say something specific, "Your hair looks great," or "I love that color on you." These are all ways that she's expressing that she's noticed you look really nice. Another thing she might say is, "I was hoping you'd be here!" When she is expressing excitement that she sees you, that she gets to talk to you, that's massive. We don't do that for someone we're not wanting to talk to. Again, it shows that there's something special about interacting with you that she looks forward to, she's excited about. Now this next one is usually said casually, so it's kind of a sneaky sign because it's easy to miss, but it really is a good sign of attraction. She might say, "I've been thinking about what you said." Basically, this is revealing that she was thinking about you and that something that happened mattered to her. It had an impact on her. Okay, this next thing is bold and it is huge. "You're my favorite person to talk to." The "favorite" part is very important. It means that there is something exceptional and noteworthy and endearing to her about talking to you, you specifically. And that's one of the best things when we're looking for signs of attraction. When you are the exception, when there's something special about you, then that's part of what helps us know that it is in fact a sign of attraction for you rather than just a personality trait. Something else she could say is, "I feel like we have a really good connection." This is her, like, opening the door and saying, "Hey, dude, ask me out. Make a move." What a lot of people don't understand is that masculine and feminine energies are irresistible to each other. And so many people think "why don't women ever pursue? They just need to man up and pursue." Well, if she did that, she would have to sacrifice her femininity. Instead, she is going to use her femininity in a way that's receptive and inviting and welcoming. And so when she says, "I feel like we have a really good connection," this is her way of saying, "Hey, I think we have a good connection. Do you think we have a good connection?" And if you like her, you should say, "Yeah, I think we do too. Do you want to go do something on Friday night?" or whatever it is. So she's being very receptive and giving you the opportunity to step up as the masculine leader in this relationship. Something else she might say, this one can be hard because you might think that it's her trying to say she doesn't like you when in reality that's probably not it at all. She might you make me nervous. Now you might think, "Oh, shoot, I make her nervous. What is wrong with me? I'm a monster. She hates me." But in reality, if she was scared of you, she wouldn't tell you that. We don't usually tell the people we're scared of that we're scared of them. But when we feel nervous around someone, that's already normal when we're attracted to them. We feel jittery, we feel nervous, we feel all kinds of things. And so if she's expressing that she feels a little bit nervous around you, that can actually be indicating strong attraction. Something else blunt she might say is, "You're cute," or, "You're attractive," or, "You're hot." Just common flirting sometimes can be easy to overlook. But if she's saying, "You're cute," then just take her at her word. She thinks you're cute. And we don't usually tell someone, "I think you're cute," if we're not interested in them. Another thing she might say is just simply, "I like when you do that," or "I like when you do something." Like, let's pretend you helped her with something, or let's pretend that she appreciates that you are a patient person, or something about you. If she says, "I like that," or "when you do that," This is a great way for— it's revealing that there are things about you she's noticing. That there are specific things that have caught her attention in positive ways, and she's expressing that to you. And perhaps one of the most bold, "Dude, what are you doing?" things is she might just say, "You should ask me out sometime." This is literally her saying, "I will not step into the masculine territory and ask you out." "I'm not going to do that. But if you ask me out, I will say yes." If you are interested in her and she says that and you do not make a move, that is rejection. Because she just said, "If you ask me out, I will say yes," and you don't make a move, she's going to move on. She's actually gonna cry and eat a lot of ice cream, possibly. But she will move on. So do not miss that one. If she says that and you're interested, ask her out. And so it's something we say super casually, like, "Hey, I was thinking about what you said the other day about blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and I thought blah, blah, blah, blah, blah." But— I'm sorry, that just sounded really funny. I don't think I can save that. Just edit whatever you gotta edit. If she says that, and you're interested, ask her out. Please! Come on, work with me here. I'm just saying. Sometimes my job is hard, guys. Just act on it. I've already told you how to act on it. Just do it. Okay, secret end of the video club. I'm thinking— I keep getting comments lately, not from you guys because you guys watch to the end, so, you know, you're like, You're superstars. But I keep getting comments of people who are like, "I didn't know you were posting videos on Tuesday." And it's like, yeah, I've been doing that for a couple months now, several months now. So we're just gonna put the word Tuesday in the comments. You know, maybe it'll spread the news a little bit and people will start paying attention. I don't know. Because they do actually read your comments because sometimes there are comments asking what everybody's talking about. So thank you for humoring me. Thank you for being here. And never forget that you're amazing! If you enjoyed this video, you will also love this video, which is on 29 flirty things women say when they like you. They're all completely different than what I shared with you in this list. So you're going to have a massive list. Thank you so much again for watching, my amazing friend! Have an amazing day, and I will see you in the next one.