Melannie Gregersen explains why chasing women doesn't work. Using a hands metaphor, she shows how one-sided pursuit prevents real closeness and that both people need to move toward each other for connection to happen.
The first thing you need to know about chasing women is anytime in a relationship— I want you to pretend my hands are two people, okay? Anytime one person is chasing, it automatically implies that the other is running away. You never get close to each other. There's no affection, there's no tenderness, there's no connection, because there's always someone chasing and always someone running away. It's empty and unfulfilling. It doesn't work. You can only have closeness when both people are pursuing each other. If they're running in any direction, it's towards each other. They're pursuing each other.
