Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Struggle talking to women? Here's your secret... 😏 #shorts

3 Jan 2023 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, the speaker—who references their dating advice "Academy"—shares a practical technique for easing the awkwardness of getting to know a woman, whether via text or on a date. The core suggestion is to frame the interaction as a game of "20 questions," inviting both parties to ask each other a series of prompts. By explicitly stating the intention to ask questions, the conversation feels more structured and less forced, allowing natural back‑and‑forth without the pressure of inserting questions into a flowing dialogue. The speaker positions this as a favorite, repeatable trick taught in their Academy, emphasizing its simplicity and effectiveness.

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Now when it comes to this question and really all these questions, there's a special trick that I love. Again, this is something if you've been through my Academy you've heard. It's one of my favorite things to teach. It's totally okay when you're texting, getting to know her, when you're on a date, whatever it is, to just embrace the fact that you want to ask each other questions. So just do something like play 20 questions, okay? "Hey, let's play 20 questions," and ask her these questions. It becomes less awkward because you don't have to slide these and fit these questions into the conversation. Conversation. Instead, you just embrace the fact that you're both going to be asking each other questions. So use that trick. It's very, very helpful. And actually, since we're talking about