Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

TERRIBLE Dating Advice Society Teaches Women! 😡 #datingcoach

1 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that many women engage in dating "games" because they are influenced by a culture that glorifies drama, hookup dynamics, and the "hard‑to‑get" trope, which is constantly reinforced through TV, social media, and music. The speaker claims that this cultural conditioning leads women to mimic these behaviors, mistakenly believing they are normal. As a contrast, the speaker introduces the concept of "godly women"—women guided by truth and enduring values rather than fleeting trends like TikTok. The central advice offered is that the most important skill for men is learning how to identify and attract these godly women, positioning them as the desirable alternative to the culturally‑driven game‑playing.

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The third reason why many women will play games is because they're following culture, not character. Our culture glamorizes drama and hookup culture. It is all over TV and social media and music. And it is— these games are portrayed as normal. Far too many popular TV shows portray these stupid pathetic games as normal. And if you're not paying attention, that's going to influence you. Even if you are paying attention, it's going to influence you. So many people just grow up watching awful shows, and they don't realize that they are mirroring what they've seen. They just think that that's normal. That's what everybody does, right? "Oh, everybody plays hard to get." "Oh, you won't even get his attention if you don't play hard to get." Now, the good news is godly women stand out because they're led by truth and values, not trends and TikTok. This is why the single most important you can learn how to do is learn how to find and attract those godly women.