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The TRUTH About "Flirtatious Banter" 😏 #shorts

9 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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This content was created by Melannie Gregersen. This content was uploaded by Melannie Gregersen. This is a YouTube short titled "The TRUTH About \"Flirtatious Banter\" 😏 #shorts" (created 2022-11-09T16:05:05+00:00). It contains an English monologue by a single speaker presenting dating/flirting advice: the speaker argues that banter is not true flirting, can be manipulative, and will generally push good women away rather than attract them.

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Thank you! Okay, this next flirting tip is going to surprise some people. This tip is to avoid banter. Banter is not flirting. It's bantering. There's a big, big difference. Bantering is contentious by nature and becomes manipulative very, very quickly. There's a lot of pressure and a lot of videos and a lot of blog posts and everything about bantering. People call it flirtatious bantering. The reason why is a lot of people get a a rush out of bantering, and they like that rush. However, unless a woman is a drama queen, banter is never going to attract her to you, okay? I know that happens in the videos, in the movies, but it's not real life. Unless she's a drama queen, banter will never attract her to you. As a matter of fact, it will push a good woman away. Banter never makes someone want to spend time with you. So