Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

These People Ruin Relationships! 😥 #datingcoach

15 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker argues that many people enter the dating scene without a clear understanding of what they truly want, leading them to seek guidance from self‑proclaimed dating coaches. The speaker critiques common “click‑bait” tactics promoted by these coaches—such as playing hard to get, acting aloof, or deliberately being unkind—as short‑term reaction‑generators that never foster authentic love. The speaker contends that the proliferation of ineffective dating coaches contributes to repeated heartache and a perception that there are more single people than ever, because these coaches are actually damaging relationships rather than helping them.

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The thing is, though, most people don't even really know what they want. And then they just go get advice from people who sound like they know what they're talking about. But it just leads you to heartache over and over and over again. Some examples would be pulling away, acting like the bad boy, playing hard to get, acting aloof, not being too nice to her, things like that. They sound really clickbaity, and in certain situations, You can get a reaction. You can. But it will never lead you to authentic love. It just simply won't. So to answer the question, "Why does it feel like there's more single people than ever before and there are more dating coaches than ever before?" Well, most of them frankly aren't any good. And so what they're doing is they're actually ruining relationships over and over again.