Loyalty should be automatic in a real relationship. If someone loves you, they choose you even when they notice other people. Any sign of disloyalty means trouble. When both partners stay loyal, that's magic.
Loyalty is not something that we should have to beg for. Like, that should just be a given. And when someone truly loves you, then they desire to be loyal to you. This doesn't mean that, you know, we don't have eyes, we don't notice other people. It means we choose to focus on the person we love most. We want to be with them forever, and we want to be loyal and true to them. So if you see signs that she's not being loyal to you, it's a sign that this is not a a good situation. But if she is loyal to you, she's definitely a keeper. If you're being loyal to her and she's being loyal to you, that right there is magic.
