Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

THIS Is How Women Pursue Men 😏 #datingcoachformen

9 Apr 2026 · 1 min

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In this dating‑coach monologue, the speaker explains that while traditional courtship expects men to pursue women, women also pursue men—but they do so in a distinctly feminine manner. Rather than overtly chasing or bombarding a man with messages, a woman shows interest by being available, engaged, enthusiastic, and affectionate when the man initiates contact. The speaker emphasizes that men should maintain masculine initiation—reaching out, asking out, texting—especially early in the relationship, while interpreting a woman's open, excited responses as clear attraction signals. As the relationship progresses, a woman may become more proactive in texting, but this shift still aligns with her feminine style. The overall message is that recognizing these feminine cues of availability and enthusiasm helps men understand attraction and navigate courtship effectively.

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Something I've taught in past videos, something I certainly talk about in my Academy, is that while men pursue women, what they don't always realize is that women in a way pursue men as well. She's going to do it in a feminine way, not a masculine way. It's not gonna look the same, but she's going to try to show her interest in you as well. A fabulous feminine way she can do this is she can just be available to do things with you. She's not gonna chase you. She's not going to be blowing up your phone and asking you out. That's something that feminine women are not very comfortable with. However, when you reach out, when you ask her out, when you text, when you interact, she's engaged, she's open, she's excited. You can feel or see the enthusiasm. Now obviously as a relationship progresses, okay, yes, She will be much more willing to text you first, and that doesn't feel masculine to her. But especially at the beginning, and really throughout the entire relationship into marriage, that pursuing in a masculine way needs to come from you, and she's going to be open and receptive and affectionate and loving in a feminine way. So if you feel that happy enthusiasm, that she's there and she's excited and she's engaged, that's a fabulous sign of attraction.