THIS Is How Women Pursue Men 😉 (How To Know If She Likes/Loves You~)

Did you know women pursue men too? Most people don't know this. It looks a little different from how men pursue just because she has that strong feminine energy. However, a woman will totally pursue the man she has her eye on. And the men who are able to tell that a woman is pursuing them are the men who are so much more successful and happy in love. Can you imagine how you would feel knowing that she was pursuing you because she likes you? Keep watching this video because I'm going to be walking you to some of the most common ways a woman pursues a man. As we dive in, I also want to mention this video on the body language signs that a girl likes you. You're going to find those body language signs very helpful as well. I'll put a link in the description below if you haven't seen it yet. Okay, the first thing you need to know is that women are different than men. I know what you're thinking, "Duh! Of course they are!" However, we totally forget to take this into consideration in dating and relationships. We kind of expect each other to act the way we would. And it's kind of funny when you think about it because a lot of the reason why we're attracted to each other is because of our differences. Here's the deal. Masculine and feminine energy crave each other. They're irresistible to each other. It's exciting! Have you ever noticed that when a girl acts more feminine, you're more drawn to her? She feels the same way when she sees you as a masculine man. Now this is going to surprise a lot of people. Pay close attention. Research shows that it makes her feel more masculine when she tries to pursue you in a more masculine way. Kinda makes sense when you stop and think about it, right? What happens is she stops feeling safe. When a woman feels safe, she's safe to feel feminine. When she doesn't feel safe, she tends to take on some of those masculine traits in order to feel safe because that there's not a man in her life doing that for her. When this happens, she literally has to sacrifice some of her femininity in order to take on that masculinity. When this happens, it actually kind of forces you to be less masculine as well. So there's really no way this scenario works. It's not fulfilling for either of you. That's why when so many people say, "Well, why doesn't she just man up and, you know, ask me out?" It's like, Well, do you really want her to man up? Do you really want that from a girl? Most feminine women will not pursue you in a masculine way. They just won't. They're not willing to sacrifice their femininity, nor should they be asked to do that. Instead, she's going to shower you with that feminine affection. She wants to shower you with feminine attention and support your masculine energy. Makes sense, right? This way everyone benefits. You get to stay masculine, she gets to stay feminine. In. And those energies just make it so much more beautiful and exciting and fun. So with that, now that you understand that men and women are different, they just are, and that's a good thing, it's supposed to be that way, let me share with you the ways that she will totally pursue you. Because yes, when a woman cares about you, when you're the man that she's thinking about and she's interested in and she's crushing on and falling in love with, yeah, she's going to pursue you. So let's start with the first way girls pursue men. The first The first way a girl will pursue a guy is she will let you know that she thinks you're attractive. There are several ways she can do this. She may do it by flirting with you, maybe, you know, kind of hinting at the fact that she thinks you're attractive. A really cheesy example would be something like, if you said something like, "Wow, I'm feeling kind of hot." "Uh, yeah, I noticed." You know, it's cheesy, it's a little bit dorky, but if it works, don't fix it. And so that is one way she could just kind of hint at the fact that she thinks you're cute. Another way is that she gives you compliments like, "That shirt looks great on you," or, "I love that color, it really brings out your eyes," or, "Hey, I really like your haircut," or, "I like your smile or your eyes," or, "Hey, your hair looks great today." We don't typically give people tons of compliments unless we're interested in them. It's definitely a big sign of attraction and her way of trying to show you that she's interested, show you that she she wants to get closer to you, show you that she wants this to work. If she's going out of her way repeatedly to show you that she's attracted to you, that is definitely one of the ways she will pursue you. P.S. If you haven't yet, make sure you subscribe and ring the notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to source to learn how to find authentic love. We're all about authentic strategies here. No flings, no mind games, no toxic drama queens. Instead, authentic strategies that lead you to the authentic love you deserve. And it's a lot easier than most people think. So subscribe and ring that notification bell if you haven't yet. Okay, the second way a woman will pursue a man is that she will show effort in the relationship. She'll put in the effort as well. Have you ever felt like you have to put in all the effort in a relationship? If you have, that is not a healthy relationship at all. That is not how it's supposed to be. If she's showing effort to spend time with you, to get to know you better, to flirt with you, if she's looking for ways to understand you better and make the relationship work, these are all ways she's pursuing you and your relationship together while also supporting your masculine role. A relationship is only happy when you have two people working together. That's what makes it magical. That's what makes it exciting. That's what eventually makes it passionate and loving and tender. Now I know I'm going to get this question, so I'm going to answer it now. You might be wondering at this point, "Okay, so where do I find a woman like that?" Like, "Where do I find a woman who's willing to do that?" Or you may even be thinking, "Okay, these are some cool signs so far, but why don't women act that way around me?" The answer is you need to understand how to attract the right kind of girl and how to show her that you're the man of her dreams, you're the right kind of guy for her. And it's truly, it's really just about unlocking the inner attraction that you already have. Because it's already there, you just need to understand how to show her how to do that. That's what makes you irresistible irresistible to her and makes you a magnet for her. These are the secrets I share with my clients in my Academy. And the results are incredible. Even men who have failed at love for decades see results incredibly fast. That's the power of these strategies. So would you like to learn more about that? Do you want to learn more about how you can unlock your inner attraction and open the doors to more love than you can possibly imagine? Something you're interested in. Watch my free masterclass now. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. I'll tell you your next steps, how to get started, what these strategies are. It's gonna rock your world. Okay, the next way a woman will pursue a man is that she'll try to take care of you and nurture you. Women are natural nurturers. That's the way God made us. We love to take care of the people we care about, the people who are important to us. We want want to kiss it all better and make you feel good. Now, kissing it all better usually comes a little bit later. But if she's trying to show— if she's trying to take care of you, that is a massive sign that she's trying to pursue you in a feminine way. She definitely wants you in her life. Some examples would be trying to help you out when you have a problem or trying to cheer you up when you aren't feeling the best. Maybe if you feel sick, she might try and help out, try and bring you something or take care of you way. It can even be just checking on you to make sure you're okay or bringing you a treat. These are some of the very common ways a woman tries to take care of her man. Okay, the next way a girl will pursue you is she will make it as easy as possible, as easy as possible, for you to notice her and pursue her in a masculine way. I mentioned earlier that if she has to use that masculine energy to approach you and interact with you in a masculine way, it's It just doesn't feel good. It can kill the attraction immediately. So instead, she will try to protect that feminine energy while making it as easy as possible for you to use that masculine energy to ask her out. Something that really helps with this is understanding female body language and the signs that she's noticed you and wants you to notice her. That's why one of the things I love to teach my clients in my Academy is how to read and pick up on that body language fast. Some of these things she she doesn't even know she's doing. Some of these things she does totally on purpose because she's hoping you will notice her. Often a girl thinks she is totally throwing herself at you. She thinks it is blatantly obvious that she's interested. But if you don't understand what those signs are and you're not picking up on them, it feels like rejection, it feels like a slap in the face. She's hurt, she's embarrassed, and it will cause her to completely move on even though she she's crushing on you and really interested in you. Honestly, you would be surprised at just how often this happens. So what are some quick examples of ways she tries to get you to notice her and tries to pursue you that way? Some examples would be she'll say, "Hey, we should do that together." Or maybe she just kind of always happens to be where you are. She's hoping that, "Oh, if I happen to be there when he's there, maybe he'll notice me and maybe he'll talk to me." Another example would be she tries to keep the conversation conversation going whenever she does get the chance to talk to you. She is trying desperately to use that feminine energy to let you know that, "Yes, boy, I'm interested in you." Okay, quick question before we get to the next thing girls do to pursue men. Would you maybe like some more videos on that masculine and feminine energy? Maybe some more videos on how to help her see you as a masculine man? If you would, comment "masculine" to let me know. This feedback really helps me. So if that's something you're interested in, make sure you comment that. And a huge thank you to everyone with the Super Thanks. Your kindness and generosity really does support wholesome Christian content, and it helps me continue making these videos for you. So thank you! And whether you have ever used the Super Thanks before or not, if you're enjoying this and you want more wholesome Christian content, consider using the Super Thanks today. It really helps a lot. So thank you. Okay, the next way a woman will pursue you and let you know that she's interested in an actual relationship with you is that she shows interest in you and your life, not just your appearance. So we already talked about the fact that she'll let you know she thinks you're attractive. And let's face it, attraction is very important in relationships. It's a good thing. It's pretty exciting and beautiful and wonderful. But You want her to actually care about who you are as a person, right? Just like she wants you to care about who she is as a person as well. When she shows the interest in who you are, it's a wonderful sign that she likes you and she's trying to pursue you. Some examples would be your hobbies and your interests, the things that are important to you, what you do in your spare time, who's important in your life, like family and friends, This kind of goes along too with women being nurturers. If it's important to someone she cares about, it's important to her as well. So if it matters to you, it matters to her. In addition to that, she just wants to know more about you. When we're attracted to someone and interested in someone, we're fascinated by them. And we truly enjoy learning more and more about them. And the, you know, the plus side is she also gets to spend more time with you, which is just It's just, you know, sugar on top. When we show interest in someone as a person, it goes even deeper. She cares about you and wants to support you. Now remember, if you do not know where to find a girl who will pursue you this way, or if you just can't understand why women don't pursue you in general, there is something you can do about it. You don't have to stay stuck there. You don't have to stay confused. This is why I created my free masterclass for you, so you can get some real clarity and direction so you know what to do next. So you can get started turbocharging your love life. Does that sound like something you want to know? Make sure you go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. There's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Okay, now that you know all this, should we recap what you've learned so far? Let's do it. Number 1 is she'll let you know that she thinks you are attractive. Number 2, she'll show effort in the relationship as well. If she's not showing effort she's clearly not pursuing. But if she is showing effort, yeah, she's totally pursuing. Number 3, she'll try to take care of you and nurture you in that feminine way. Number 4, she will make it as easy as possible for you to notice her and pursue her in a masculine way. And number 5, she'll show interest in you and your life, not just your looks. Looks are important, but if she truly cares about who you are, that is a huge sign that she cares about you and she's pursuing you. Thank you so much for watching, my wonderful friend! Be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell if you haven't yet. And tell me if you'd like more videos like this in the comments. If you have a friend who would enjoy this video, make sure you share it with him. Sharing really does help. And if you don't follow me on social media, there are links in the description below. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! If you have a friend that would enjoy this video, please share it with it. It's the what? If you have a video— What? I can't talk! 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