Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

THIS Is How Women Pursue Men 😉 #datingtipsformen

13 Sept 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the presenter explains that when a woman genuinely wants a man to ask her out, she will make the process easy by dropping hints, expressing openness to plans, or explicitly stating she’s single. She will be receptive and excited once asked. The speaker contrasts this with immature or toxic women who play “hard to get” and make dating difficult, arguing that men should seek “high‑value” women—those who are clear, confident, and eager to be asked out, as they are more likely to be suitable long‑term partners.

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If a girl doesn't want you to ask her out, she's certainly not going to make it easy. However, the reverse is also true. If she really wants you to ask her out, she's going to make it as easy as possible. This can be— an example would be saying things like, "Oh, I actually don't have anything to do this weekend. I wish I did, that would be fun." Or maybe dropping hints to make sure you know she's single. You know, "Hey, I'm single, so you should ask me out," is kind of what she's hoping comes through. And then when you do ask her out, she's incredibly receptive and excited about it. It is true that there are immature and toxic women who try to play, you know, hard to get and, like, not make it too easy. But do you really want to date those girls, or are you looking for a high-value woman? You know, the kind of woman you'd actually want to be your wife. If you're looking for a high-value woman, then she wants you to ask her out. She's excited about it.