Melannie Gregersen explains why women pull away in relationships. It's not about attraction, she says, but how men communicate and present themselves. Learning to talk effectively is what makes a man seem like a dream partner.
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Sometimes a relationship could totally work, but something has happened to make her feel like it won't. Unless you're able to communicate effectively what you have to offer and connect with her in that way, it's not really going to matter. Women are just going to assume a relationship with you isn't going to work. This is why I sometimes say it's not an attraction problem, it's a communication problem. If the way you are presenting yourself, if the way the way you are interacting with her makes her say, "Uh, that's not gonna work," she's going to pull away. But if instead the way you connect with her and the way you present yourself and the way you interact with her says, "Wow, he is my dream man," okay, it's going to be a very different story.