THIS Makes Her Want To Get Closer~ 😉
2 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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Melannie Gregersen argues that playing hard to get backfires. Instead of being mysteriously unavailable, she says being genuinely alluring means letting someone get close to you.

Melannie Gregersen argues that playing hard to get backfires. Instead of being mysteriously unavailable, she says being genuinely alluring means letting someone get close to you.
The tactics most people use to be mysterious are actually manipulative and toxic. And they actually make you the toxic person. And that's not good. Things like playing hot and cold and keeping her guessing and not being too available on purpose and just doing things to keep her guessing. Anytime you are purposefully trying to keep her guessing, it's a little bit manipulative and toxic. And the last thing you want is to be the toxic person in the relationship. Right? This is why I prefer to come from the approach of being alluring. Being mysterious means you can't quite get too close, but alluring means you can get as close as you want. And doesn't that sound a whole lot more exciting?