Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

THIS Means You Can Succeed In Love... 😉 #relationshiptips

8 Aug 2025 · 2 min

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In this coaching-style monologue, the speaker emphasizes that success in love begins with clearly defining what you want in a future spouse and relationship. She argues that without a concrete vision, pursuing love is like aiming at an invisible target, making success unlikely. The speaker outlines her standard client exercise: identifying relationship goals, desired emotional impact, physical traits, shared relationship dynamics, and partner standards. By articulating these specifics, clients can work backward to attract the right partner, a method she claims has helped many find “the absolute love of my life.” The talk concludes with a promotional call to action, announcing that enrollment for her Academy opens on August 13th, with a limited discount for the first 15 men, encouraging listeners to mark their calendars.

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If you don't know the answer to this question, you're going to struggle in love. The good news is you get to choose what the answer is, but you need to have one. Are you ready for the question? What do you want? What do you want in your future spouse, in your relationship? What is it you're looking for? So many people ache for love and connection, but they don't really know what that means for them because it's going to be a little different for different people. And so if you haven't defined that, it's kind of like trying to hit a target that you can't even see. I'm not saying it's impossible to hit that target. I'm saying it's very, very unlikely. But if instead you've defined what it is you want, you can then work backwards to achieve it. This is the first thing I have my clients do in my Academy is we start talking about what are your relationship goals? How does she make you feel? What are some of her physical traits? What kind of relationship have you built together? What are her opinions and thoughts and standards? If you don't know that, then you're going to feel cheated in love because you're not going to be able to pursue the kind of love you want because you haven't really defined it. So again, I start by having my clients define what it is they want, and then we work backward so that they can actually achieve that kind of love, which is why they can say, hey, I I have found the absolute love of my life. So the strategy works. So I invite you today to take some time to define what it is you're looking for. Really think about it and mark your calendar for August 13th because this is when enrollment opens to my Academy. It only opens twice a year and the first 15 men in get an incredible discount. So mark your calendar, August 13th.