Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

TOP SIGNS (Both Good And Bad) She's Testing You...

17 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this short video, the presenter walks through six common "tests" a woman may present in a dating context, labeling each as either a red‑flag (toxic) or an appropriate, healthy behavior. The tests are: (1) verbal insult or challenge – a toxic red flag; (2) meeting her family and friends – a normal, appropriate step; (3) jealousy test – deliberately trying to provoke jealousy, a red flag; (4) asking about your goals – a healthy, appropriate inquiry; (5) change‑of‑plans or flaking test – an inconvenience that signals a red flag; and (6) asking you questions about your opinions – a positive sign that she wants to know you. The speaker emphasizes recognizing these signals to gauge relationship health.

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Okay, let's recap these tests, what you've learned so far. You ready? Number 1 is the verbal insult or challenge test. This is a red flag. This is toxic. Number 2, she wants you to meet her family and friends. Totally appropriate. Something you should be doing as well. Number 3 is the jealousy test. Again, she's purposefully trying to make you jealous. That's a red flag right there. Number 4, she asks you about your goals. Again, Totally appropriate. You should be asking her as well. Number 5 is the change of plans test, or flaking out, inconveniencing you test. Red flag. Hopefully, that's obvious. And number 6 is that she asks you questions. She wants to know your opinion on things. Something you should be doing as well.