Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Toxic Dating Advice You Should NEVER Listen To! 😬 #datingtipsformen

18 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, dating and relationship coach Melannie Gregersen condemns the prevalence of manipulative, game‑playing advice that pervades modern dating culture. She argues that such toxic guidance—teaching men that manipulation equals power or that mind games are necessary to attract or retain a partner—is fundamentally flawed and reflects the coach’s own lack of skill. While acknowledging that many women who play games are simply following this misguided instruction, she emphasizes that high‑value women reject games altogether, seeking authentic, deep connections instead of forced or fake relationships. The speaker urges listeners to abandon toxic tactics, level up their own relational skills, and focus on attracting high‑value women who value genuine intimacy.

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This is one of the reasons I'm so passionate about being a dating coach and a relationship coach, is there's so much toxic advice out there. And so much of it is teaching people that they should play mind games. Many people are taught that manipulation equals power, or they're taught this is the only way to get a man, or this is the only way to keep him true to you. Pfft! That's a bunch of crap. Anybody who's teaching that or believes that, clearly needs to, like, level up their skills because that is pathetic. However, something to keep in mind is often when a woman is playing games, she's not trying to be cruel. She's simply been told that that's all there is. And these toxic coaches, these toxic voices out there, they seem to get results. But here's the good news. You don't have to worry about that because high-value women never wants to play games. They want an authentic relationship. They want a deep connection instead of a relationship that feels forced or fake. So this is why making sure you're attracting a high-value woman is going to be so much better.