In this segment, the presenter advises men on how to use compliments as a powerful flirting tool while avoiding overuse. She explains that genuine compliments make people feel good and increase memorability, but excessive or insincere praise can backfire, making conversation difficult. The speaker encourages creative, varied compliments that go beyond appearance—such as praising creativity or personality—and stresses the importance of monitoring the interaction to ensure compliments remain sincere and balanced with genuine dialogue.
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My next tip that makes women totally crazy about you is to use compliments, to use that as the incredible tool it is, with a caution to not overuse it. When you're trying to flirt, when you're trying to capture her attention, compliments are a fabulous way to do that. We feel— people like people who make them feel good. You've heard me say that before. Compliments are a fabulous way to let the other person know, you you think they're kind of cute. It's a great way to make them feel good when they're around you. We love compliments. We love it when somebody compliments us. It makes them more memorable to us. However, what I do frequently see is there are a lot of men who will take that a little too far and they just pile on the compliments. And when you do that, it starts to feel insincere. And you don't really feel like you can have a conversation with this guy because he's just throwing more compliments at you when what you want is to talk to him. So by all means, Utilize compliments and be creative with them. You know, it doesn't always have to be, "Oh, you look really nice today." Although yes, that's a nice compliment. But something like, "Wow, you're really creative. That's incredible." Think outside of just her appearance. And then just be careful, pay attention when you're talking to women, and notice if maybe you're overdoing the compliments just a little. If you are, then just tone it back. Still compliment her, but don't overdo it.
