Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

When Men Do THIS (Women Melt~ 🫠) #flirting

8 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker offers practical flirting advice for men, focusing on how to use eye contact without coming across as creepy. He warns against staring, sharing a personal anecdote about how a persistent stare made him uncomfortable. Instead, he recommends letting a woman notice you looking, and when eye contact is made, to smile. The smile signals confidence, friendliness, and genuine interest, creating a positive emotional response in the woman—making her heart flutter and feel attractive. The overall message is that subtle, confident non‑verbal cues are far more effective than awkward or aggressive staring.

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let her see you looking at her. Now, I do not mean stare her down. That is so creepy. I actually knew someone who did that when I was a teenager, just always stare at me, and it creeped me out and made me feel so awkward. So you don't want to do that, just like you don't want her to stare awkwardly at you. Instead, let her notice that you're looking at her. And when your eyes meet, smile. And this shows that you're confident, shows that you're friendly, shows that you like what you see. It's a very, very different experience from just, you know, awkwardly staring at her. When a girl sees a guy looking at her like that and sees that you smile, sees that you're open and friendly that way, yeah, her heart is going to flutter. Everyone wants to know that they're attractive and that they were noticed.